VELVET21 Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 right now im really freaking me out...ive never felt this way about anyone. i even made a fake fb profile and added him (im not a stalker)i just wanted to see if he at least feel bad about us breaking out cuz he blocked me from everything....seems he doesnt feel bad at all..actually saw that he went out with some friends yesterday, which hurts cuz he broke up with me cuz of "busy schedule" and "not wanting to hurt me bout it even tho he loves me sooooo much and im the best thing that happened to him"....dont worry i already deleted the account i know its not going to help me move on. im thinking about go see him cuz he just broke up with me with an email then blocked me and wont answer calls emails anything the last thing he said was that what we had was real and to not make things harder..like if he actually felt guity and sorry about how things end...why lie like this if clearly he never cared about me im confused
latexyankee Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Ok Ok slow down. You're posting here so thats the first step. Drop the effing FB NOW. you are in fact acting as a stalker. That is something you have to overcome. Take some time to cool down, have a drink, take your battery out of your phone. you have to NC now. We all have relapses, i've had one the past 2 days thinking of breaking NC(i'ts been a month) and I post here just so geegirl and others will yell at me(thanx!) Take a minute to chill and read some posts tonight, I feel it's way to early to determine what is going to happen but I can assure you something bad WILL happen if you continue this behavior.
D-Lish Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Don't go to see him!!! That would make you a stalker. I guarantee showing up on his doorstep WILL make things much worse. The thing is, the best thing for you is the one thing you are going to have the most trouble with- and that's to discontinue all contact with him.
geegirl Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 "i made a hugeeee fool of myself this last days i kept almost begging for an answer but he just didnt wanted too..." This is what you last said in your past post. If you don't want to continue making a hugeeee fool of yourself, you will not stalk him for answers. He can't and won't give you the answers you want. He may not be lying. He may have loved you and may still do but not enough to want the relationship. Spare your dignity and self-respect. If someone wants to walk away, let them walk. And even if he gave you an answer, how much of what he would be saying would just be words to pacify you? Then that would be lies too. And if he was brutally honest with you, which is something he probably won't do because it would make him feel guilty, that would make you feel worse. You're going there to refresh his memory. Maybe see if he will change his mind. Beg and plead a little again and tell him you both can work it out when he clearly doesn't. Cry some more and hope your tears will soften him up. Either way, you're going to push him even further away by badgering him instead of accepting his wish to move on, even though how he did it was cowardly.
Author VELVET21 Posted July 7, 2011 Author Posted July 7, 2011 i know i already did cancel the facebook account..i know its not helping....i just hate the fact that he wont say anything just dump me without at least a call..
Author VELVET21 Posted July 7, 2011 Author Posted July 7, 2011 im really happy i found this site its helping i know its going to be hard to get over this but i guess ill have to take it a day at a time right..thanks for the answers guys
latexyankee Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Well then he's not worth it, unless you gave him a reason not to call. He is what you call a GRADE A dbag. Most of the posters x's on here suffer from a similar syndrome.
geegirl Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 im really happy i found this site its helping i know its going to be hard to get over this but i guess ill have to take it a day at a time right..thanks for the answers guys Yes Velvet, one step at a time. One day at a time. Post here, vent here. Baby steps. It hurts like hell. We all have been there but you'll look back one day and thank your lucky stars you preserved your self respect and dignity. Don't waste the pretty on this coward of a man.
Author VELVET21 Posted July 7, 2011 Author Posted July 7, 2011 Well then he's not worth it, unless you gave him a reason not to call. He is what you call a GRADE A dbag. Most of the posters x's on here suffer from a similar syndrome. i didnt even give him a reason to break up i just said i we needed to spend more time together and that i knew it was hard for him to come so id go i just wanted to make things better..i went to my country for a couple of weeks then came back on my bday(its not nice to be on a plane half of ur bday believe me) cuz he said he wanted to spend that day with me and to my surprise not only he didnt spend that day with me but i didnt even see him at all for 2 weeks i send the email and he broke up with me...writing this i dont even know why im so sad about it he was a dbag:(
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