one goal Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 The girl I talk about I'm pursuing heavily how would she feel if I admitted to her that I like her, and have a crush on her? Would she maybe be more understanding and find it cute, or do you think she knows that I like her?
Teknoe Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 The girl I talk about I'm pursuing heavily how would she feel if I admitted to her that I like her, and have a crush on her? Would she maybe be more understanding and find it cute, or do you think she knows that I like her? LMAO. Here we go again *props feet up on table and grabs a lemonade drink* Like a train wreck, this is something I just can't take my eyes off of Dude she sooooo freakin' knows. She knew you liked her from the moment you laid eyes on her. Girls aren't dumb. And your actions have been super obvious. Look, life is a series of tests. If you don't pass one test, it's going to keep coming back at you in a different pair of pants until you ace it. For you it's been different girl flavor of the month, same ole story. Go ahead and confess to her that you like her. Then come back and make another topic about how evil girls are and how unfair life is when she rejects you (for the 10th time)
Teknoe Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 why ask? jus kiss her :laugh: fred, better check one goal's post history first. this girl does NOT like him. if he tried to kiss her, he might end up in the hospital...
oaks Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 She knows. She won't think it's cute if you tell her, and she'll probably be annoyed that you told her because she already knows and already knows that she isn't interested in you other than as a classmate or perhaps a friend. If you go as far as telling that you have a crush on her she'll find it (and you) creepy. Really. One question for you: This woman isn't interested in you. Are you going to look for a different woman? If not, then I can't help you further, so please let me know.
Teknoe Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 beter check my histroy. girl says she dont like me. i go in for the kiss and score that night. please please do NOT encourage one goal. That was you, One Goal is, well, One Goal. What works for you won't work for him. I hate to sound blunt, but it's clear he has some issues to work out before he is stable enough to even consider dating anyone.
Teknoe Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 beter then fag advise. dumy. sure, being smart and maintaining your dignity and self-respect < a stint in the (mental) hospital. Brilliant, pal.
Feelsgoodman Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 Dude she sooooo freakin' knows. She knew you liked her from the moment you laid eyes on her. Girls aren't dumb. And your actions have been super obvious. Actually, many of them are, but even the dumb ones can usually tell when a guy is salivating over them (and judging from the way the OP describes his advances, that's exactly what he's been doing).
Dust Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 You don’t tell a girl “I like you” or “I have a crush on you.” If anything if its awkward or troublesome talking to her now she won’t suddenly warm up to you if you say that. Your best bet is just asking her out. Invite her to a concert, or a beach cook out, or what ever sounds fun to you. Once you get to know her you can tell her you “like” her. I advise kissing her first though.
grkBoy Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 The girl I talk about I'm pursuing heavily how would she feel if I admitted to her that I like her, and have a crush on her? Would she maybe be more understanding and find it cute, or do you think she knows that I like her? Jenna Maroney talked about this in her video today. (look up jenna marbles on YouTube) I think it's daring, but unfortunately if the girl don't find you desirable, she'll see it as creepy. So you're pursuing heavily....what does that mean? How are you doing so far in this pursuit?
rafallus Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 The girl I talk about I'm pursuing heavily how would she feel if I admitted to her that I like her, and have a crush on her? Would she maybe be more understanding and find it cute, or do you think she knows that I like her? Approximately: "I'm sorry, I'm not ready to date anyone right now". Then she'll go to have sex with some hot guy several hours later.
Cracker Jack Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Sometimes I have a hard time understanding if you're serious or not with these topics. In your previous one, you pretty much admitted that she wasn't into you like that, since she seemed reluctant to hang out with you outside of school. Now you're wondering if admitting how you feel will make things better? She knows you like her.
Trimmer Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 LMAO. Here we go again *props feet up on table and grabs a lemonade drink* Here, gimme a few sips and I'll share my popcorn with you...
LexiB Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 You don’t tell a girl “I like you” or “I have a crush on you.” If anything if its awkward or troublesome talking to her now she won’t suddenly warm up to you if you say that. Your best bet is just asking her out. Invite her to a concert, or a beach cook out, or what ever sounds fun to you. Once you get to know her you can tell her you “like” her. I advise kissing her first though. Dude, he's already done that. Twice (once under the guise of working on a GROUP school assignment sans the group). She rejected him. Both times. Yet here he is with a new thread, about the same girl, now having bumped his game up to 'heavy pursuit'. :lmao: St-st-st-stalker...
Author one goal Posted July 7, 2011 Author Posted July 7, 2011 I talked to her a little bit again tonight. The usual subtle flirting. She is a very mature girl for her age, and honestly I told her that and told her that's a reason why I showed interest in her. She said Thanks!
somedude81 Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 I talked to her a little bit again tonight. The usual subtle flirting. She is a very mature girl for her age, and honestly I told her that and told her that's a reason why I showed interest in her. She said Thanks! And..........?
Author one goal Posted July 7, 2011 Author Posted July 7, 2011 And..........? After that I told her I'd ttyl because I had homework to do and workout.
Author one goal Posted July 7, 2011 Author Posted July 7, 2011 And..........? So you're saying I should have kept talking to her after she said thanks?
somedude81 Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 I mean that you're reading too much into it. Her saying thanks doesn't mean anything. She's just being polite.
Teknoe Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 One of these days, you're going to get into serious trouble! Honestly I am beginning to think with every new One Goal post I read that he is a "joke character" -- I dunno why he's doing this but for whatever reasons he's getting his kicks off us. 1. He never takes our advice to heart 2. I doubt anyone can be THIS dense I think he just enjoys making threads that always sees 5+ pages and 100+ replies... because each of us tries to help him, maybe our post will be the breakthrough/lightbulb moment for him, but he continually ignores it and "just does his own thing" (although I'm beginning to think these stories are all made up and fantasized). He's milking this latest "girl" (if she even exists) and once he does, he'll make up another crazy crush story, another thread that hits 5+ pages of people offering advice, and him turning a deaf ear to said advice, or asking the weirdest questions that even a person with an IQ of 70 would know better. He hasn't shown me otherwise that he's not a "self-made joke character" for his own twisted amusement. I've never met someone so socially bad before... this HAS to be a joke persona he's created. And if you think about it, it doesn't take a whole lot of energy/time on his part. After all, he just ignores all the advice he receives and replies with 2 line posts. That's something that doesn't take up a lot of his time.
utterer of lies Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Honestly I am beginning to think with every new One Goal post I read that he is a "joke character" -- I dunno why he's doing this but for whatever reasons he's getting his kicks off us. 1. He never takes our advice to heart 2. I doubt anyone can be THIS dense I think he just enjoys making threads that always sees 5+ pages and 100+ replies... because each of us tries to help him, maybe our post will be the breakthrough/lightbulb moment for him, but he continually ignores it and "just does his own thing" (although I'm beginning to think these stories are all made up and fantasized). He's milking this latest "girl" (if she even exists) and once he does, he'll make up another crazy crush story, another thread that hits 5+ pages of people offering advice, and him turning a deaf ear to said advice, or asking the weirdest questions that even a person with an IQ of 70 would know better. He hasn't shown me otherwise that he's not a "self-made joke character" for his own twisted amusement. I've never met someone so socially bad before... this HAS to be a joke persona he's created. And if you think about it, it doesn't take a whole lot of energy/time on his part. After all, he just ignores all the advice he receives and replies with 2 line posts. That's something that doesn't take up a lot of his time. That, but then there's the fact that he was dox'd here and on other boards, police was involved with his stalking of Katherine McPhee and he posted a picture of himself with her. I rather think he has asperger's or some form of autism...
Teknoe Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 That, but then there's the fact that he was dox'd here and on other boards, police was involved with his stalking of Katherine McPhee and he posted a picture of himself with her. I rather think he has asperger's or some form of autism... Ah, didn't know he posted his pic here, or the McPhee thing. Hmm, yeah, that seems overly the top if he's just going to make up things, I doubt he'd post his picture.
AlexDP Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 You know something though? I'm starting to like this girl. Either she's very insecure and just needs some male attention (although I think someone insecure would be really scared by now) or she's genuinely friendly and is really tiptoeing around his feelings. OG, you've done a lot of stuff wrong already and I know this whole dating stuff doesn't make sense to you. It isn't rational. It's not because a girl is single that she'll say yes if a guy asks her to go out with him. Unfortunately she is not attracted to you. If you want her to be your friend, I think you need to do two things: - Ease up on the texting. One text a day max. - Realise that you are not ever going to kiss her or have sex with her. And other guys probably will.
Author one goal Posted July 7, 2011 Author Posted July 7, 2011 You know something though? I'm starting to like this girl. Either she's very insecure and just needs some male attention (although I think someone insecure would be really scared by now) or she's genuinely friendly and is really tiptoeing around his feelings. OG, you've done a lot of stuff wrong already and I know this whole dating stuff doesn't make sense to you. It isn't rational. It's not because a girl is single that she'll say yes if a guy asks her to go out with him. Unfortunately she is not attracted to you. If you want her to be your friend, I think you need to do two things: - Ease up on the texting. One text a day max. - Realise that you are not ever going to kiss her or have sex with her. And other guys probably will. So what should I text her about once a day then?
Dorie Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 - Realise that you are not ever going to kiss her or have sex with her. And other guys probably will. Other guys most certainly will be. Once the OP understands he will never be one of those guys (with this particular female), all the better.
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