micot Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 my story thus far, knew a woman about 6 months before we datted for 6 yrs.6 good years no big blow ups or anything like that DEFINATLY more good than bad . caught her in a couple of ''white lies'' bought them up to her she answerd them in her her way ,her replies left some doubts in my mind . one day she just goes no explination etc [like many others] i caught up with her days later and i got the 'i don't love you no more',we're not a couple any more' speach ..we go low contact . THEN we go no contact about a week or 2 . i hear her family member is verry ill , i call quick just to say i hear abnout your grand pa she thanks me we talk about general stuff . i see her with a guy sometimes [ i say nothing ] i am re doing my home and have things of her's here , she drops by to collect them as we planned we talk a few minutes,K i just out and ask / say that theirs someone else now ? i don't get a reply .i say i'm saying because i seen and heard from others ,she says she doesn't have to tell me anything , i agree just say well you never gave a reason for the break up so i just wonderd she gets nervous/ anxious says she needs to go [ i figure without words i have my answer] i find other things of hers call and she knows it's me calling YET shestill answers .i say you thought you lost thise things they were in the garage ,she says she'll make plans to get them o.k. we chat a bit about nothing in particular.SHE says she'd like to see my place whn it's re done she cares about me as a friend .i say we're not really friends acting this way . WHY would she be answering when i call knowing it's me ? why would she be intrestead in seeing my place when it's re done? why did she ask if i was going to keep my cell number ? personally i don't think she's grieved the break up , and don't know if she met the new guy after or while we were together she has accused me of hacking her account ,i proved to her i didn't ,she's attempting to blame me for under handed things which i'm not doing ,maybe she's doing those things to put her at ease with her actions ? she's never told me f- off don't call me, i'm not stopping by,keep my things,throw them out or anything . IF she were honest with me i would consider reconciliation down the road after we became friends again like back to square 1 i think she is sending very mixed signals , or even keeping me around in case new guy don't work out [which i'm NOT just waiting around ] a real open and honest talk between us would be nice YET she pulls away from doing that .
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 WHY would she be answering when i call knowing it's me ? why would she be intrestead in seeing my place when it's re done? why did she ask if i was going to keep my cell number ? Maybe she thinks you can be friends right after the break up. Or she could be stringing you along. I know it seems like mixed signals but take a look at it from the outside, I don't really see any mixed signals here. Just her either trying to be friends with you or possibly stringing you along in case Mr. Right isn't so right.
Author micot Posted July 6, 2011 Author Posted July 6, 2011 she did mention she cares about me as a frind , she said she does consider me a friend BUT i've told her wwhere not friends , friends don't act and sometimes talk as we do PLUS i don't think she's dealth with the break up being she went right to someone else. stringing me along i don't see how after she's accusing me of doing under handed things to her ,like messing with her e mail or phone etc
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