Ally-65 Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 Hi again Ok, I know this is really stupid and I get myself in such a state over it.. but just cant seem to stop it. Why? BU a month ago. NC since, instigated by me. He lives two doors away from me. It was always going to be a risk that he moved so close, but we were together at that time. Now... it sucks. It's just that I can now tell if and when he is home by looking out to see if his bike is there. I keep doing it and then get upset when he doesn't come home straight after work. I know he has social stuff going on with motorbike clubs etc. But why do I look, just to get myself upset. I've tried pulling the blinds, but still look. I just want to stop now..
radiodarcy Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 personally i would leave the house and stay away as long as possible so i wouldn't be tempted to look. take a walk, window shop, call a friend whatever. if you can do that then that would be the best course of action.
latexyankee Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 This, would be tough. I agree I'd have to stay out of the house as much as physically possible. Go ANYWHERE. It will probably get to him as well, wondering if your out with someone new and why you seem to be out so much(although that is not the goal). If you can, seriously I would move. depending how bad your situation is, how much grief your going through, it wouldn't be a bad idea. And that doesnt mean he wins, it means YOU win because you are taking steps to forget.
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