arbrne_vet Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 I have been trying to make this work since last September, when I proposed. She has never been the same person since. never made any attempt, just made excuse after excuse. she can never forgive, and always would hang on to the past, and i mean over two years ago. no cheating, just things that made her upset. i tell her she has walls up, and had them up before i met her. she tells me i put them there. ok, so i did. i have changed, made many changes. did what she wanted, and still always got beat up over something. it's time to let go. it's time to realize it is over. it's time to realise i cannot make her happy, and she does not, nor has loved me in a long long time. not sure why she has stayed. close enough to keep my interest, but far enough away to not commit. so, i read here some thoughts from homebrew that are so true. i think all of us here need to digest this, and internalize it all. "They will be single, they will pursue you, they will be sincere, they will be genuine, they will be open, they will be honest, they will make themselves available to you, they will call, text, email and communicate with you like they did before, they will initiate, they will make you a priority, they will make plans with you, they will talk about a future with you, they will want to see you and be with you like they did before, they will want to share and be a part of your life, they will gladly remove or climb over any roadblocks or obstacles that are standing in the way, they will be persistent, they will fight for you, they will put forth the work and the effort that is needed, what they say will also be consistent with their actions, they will do whatever is necessary, they will give it their all and their very best!" Goodbye my love. i will miss you.
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