kittycat95 Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 Hi all, Today is my first full day of NC since my break up one month ago. What really convinced me to try to let go is the old saying, "if you love somebody, let them go." I feel like freedom is the ultimate expression of love. Although I no longer have him I take some peace knowing he does care about me beneath the anger he felt towards me at the end, and that right now, this is for the best. I just wanted some feedback. I currently have a very positive frame of mind and am hoping it won't just disappear overnight. It feels loads better than being angry or digging my heels in trying to hold onto him. Now I know if he does come back to me, if he even does, it means he really wants to. And if he does not, then we were not meant to be. Thoughts? I will try to keep this thread updated.
crazylove Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 I admire you for having the strength to start NC and letting go. It takes a lot of courage, and i hope that you can stay strong and positive. It's not going to be easy, but you've taken the first step now. Good luck:)
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