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In short, we have been dating for 6 months. We see each other once or twice a week. Often we do not become intimate each time, and I was getting very frustrated. Out of the blue I said yesterday "I am really sexually frustrated and you do not want me to show my penis somewhere else." In a few hours I said "This was very disrespectful, I am sorry and I will make it up to you." I think she is done. Help! What do I do now. I am not calling, begging, etc. We love each other, or at least until yesterday.

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Can you send her flowers with a heartfelt letter of forgiveness, telling her how much you love her and would never cheat on her?

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Can you send her flowers with a heartfelt letter of forgiveness, telling her how much you love her and would never cheat on her?

 

I would never cheat, I am monogamous big time. Do you think flowers could work. I know that I should not be begging, calling like crazy, sending flowers, etc. I think an honest letter from the heart with flowers would be nice.

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She likely took it as a threat that you'd cheat on her. If I was in her shoes I would likely be done with the relationship.

 

However, if you talk to her and let her know that you have no intentions of ever cheating and that it was said out of frustration, she may come around.

 

If not, lesson learned.

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She likely took it as a threat that you'd cheat on her. If I was in her shoes I would likely be done with the relationship.

 

However, if you talk to her and let her know that you have no intentions of ever cheating and that it was said out of frustration, she may come around.

 

If not, lesson learned.

 

I know, she has the right to be done. I can blame only myself.

I have said many times in the past I would never cheat on her.

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Just communicate your feelings with her, it's all that you can do. Explain the situation. I hope it turns out for you.

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Just communicate your feelings with her, it's all that you can do. Explain the situation. I hope it turns out for you.

 

This is what I will do.

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This is what I will do.

 

I just talked to her, and explained. She did tell me she had no desire to see

me, but will call tomorrow if she wants to see me.

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