Klipsch Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 I'm not sure where to post this, but I'm having a heard time wrapping my head around this situation. (Wall of Text) About two days ago my girlfriend and I had broken up, since then my mind has cleared and I don't really know what to make of the situation. The two of us had been going out for about two months now and we are two years apart in our early twenties. We seemed to hit it off great and things were perfect up until about last weekend. She had just gotten home from a week long family vacation in which we hardly got to talk to each other. We had just started texting each other when I noticed that she seemed very distant from me and it wasn't long before she started expressing some concerns about our relationship. She said that we had moved too fast and said things were very difficult for her of late (going through a move, depressed, dealing with past relationship troubles that had been brought up). I told her that I was more than willing to do whatever it took to help her through it and be by her side. In the end it didn't work and we agreed to take a break, but here is the kicker; she wanted to keep talking to me. This confused me and by the next day, she had taken me back. This didn't last long before she became angry and broke it off again. I asked her if she wanted to just have some space and she said she didn't want it...all the while she was saying that she wanted to get back together once things got better. Things were shaky up until about two days ago, akward texting with me trying to set up times to talk things over. Everytime/Day I had suggested or wanted to get together she was busy. Two days ago things had gotten a little better, we agreed to meet and talk things out on a date..but a few hours later she bailed on me. This had me worried and eventually she told me that she was done, couldn't handle a relationship right now. Since then there has been no communication. All of this was done through texting, she had declined every call I sent and every offer to meet and talk things out. My question to the people reading this....should I just move on? I really have feelings for this girl and I know she had them for me at some point. Should I try contacting her at all and if so..how long should I wait? I'm just very confused by this whole scenario.
nikkinicole36 Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 Two months of dating and you are already going through all of this back and forth? Really your best bet is to go no contact. She sounds so confused and more than likely your heart is going to be broken in this process. Best to cut your losses now before you are months even years into this yo yo relationship.
Author Klipsch Posted July 6, 2011 Author Posted July 6, 2011 Honestly..I've been thinking the same thing. Would a friendship with her be out of order do you think?
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 Honestly..I've been thinking the same thing. Would a friendship with her be out of order do you think? Maybe in the future, I would go NC for a while and see where things go. after a few months if you feel you want a friendship then try contacting her.
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