Rafaela Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 After i realize how useless continuing in a relationship and hopping for some good changes from my Boyfriend. Thanks for everyone who ever used to follow my dramatic story and i do appreciate your help. Today i decided to Finish this drama with my BF after i found out that his family are thinking of me as ''Friend'' Only. me and my BF almost planned for marriage a year now, he even brought me a nice fancy dress and he claimed from his mother, we even choose the names of our kids in future. yesterday his family were in picnic and he called his brother in law and he asked him if he can come with his friend which is me then i asked him what the hell am i just a friend?? he said no you are my future wife, my love my bla bla bla bla ...ect. I was very disappointed and surprised in same time, i didn’t cause a fight but today when i came to my office i sent him a message that i am breaking up with him, obviously he starts begging me again and he said that he will be coming to my work to pick me up in couple hourse from now and we ll talk about it when we get home, but i know his drama once we get home he will start hugging and kissing me to forget about things. That’s why I am not taking his ride and I will not open my door to him. Anyways was very hard to break up with him last time, after i found out in my previous thread that he used to hung out with another girl. I did my best: cut off his calls/ no text, he kept coming knocking my door and crying like a baby thats made me get back to him but now after i find out that his parents don’t even know at all that we are planning for marriage, which i told everything to my parents and they are waiting for him to bring his family over and asking my hand officially. Omg we are wearing engagement rings but nothing is real, CAN YOU BELIEVE IT?
amethyste Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 He is what you call a "Future Faker". They say and do the right things so that they get what they want. Learn more... Here. You can't even image how helpful this article is for me.
Author Rafaela Posted July 5, 2011 Author Posted July 5, 2011 He is what you call a "Future Faker". They say and do the right things so that they get what they want. Learn more... Here. Wow very interesting, thanks a lot it makes sense now.
Author Rafaela Posted July 5, 2011 Author Posted July 5, 2011 Omg i never knew there is a separate type existing i thought he just got used to lie a lot for so many years and now we he found the right person he is trying hard to get back to normal, but my question is, why is he trying so hard to keep me with him? i mean he is perfect and great person when everything is smooth?? what keeps him so attached to me? moreover i have nothing to offer. The article of future faker talks about the person who's using something in you and pretending he wants you for future. but this person getting nothing from me, i mean i m still a student i dont have much money to offer moreover he is the one who takes care if this. also he doesn’t even using me for my body because i am still virgin and we dont have sex just flirting as he respected my decision for having my first intercourse till my wedding night. then what else can he use to be that crazy about me??
Eddie Edirol Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 Omg i never knew there is a separate type existing i thought he just got used to lie a lot for so many years and now we he found the right person he is trying hard to get back to normal, but my question is, why is he trying so hard to keep me with him? i mean he is perfect and great person when everything is smooth?? what keeps him so attached to me? moreover i have nothing to offer. The article of future faker talks about the person who's using something in you and pretending he wants you for future. but this person getting nothing from me, i mean i m still a student i dont have much money to offer moreover he is the one who takes care if this. also he doesn’t even using me for my body because i am still virgin and we dont have sex just flirting as he respected my decision for having my first intercourse till my wedding night. then what else can he use to be that crazy about me?? hes probably hoping that you will break down and have sex with him before the wedding when you feel the most comfortable. He might be in rebound mode after a long term relationship and used you to get over her. You never know with a liar like this. But now you know, if a guy doesnt introduce you to his parents as his girlfriend, you know youre in trouble. You cant overlook the red flags because its not romantic, you have to be on guard. He is also used to your companionship, and that is sometimes hard to let go.
sleepykitten Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 WOW-i just read the future faker article and it described my ex to perfection!!! I now have closure!! And feel like i have dodged a bullet....he definatly was a future faker in addition to being a free loading mummy's boy. Homebrew you are officially my break up guru.......
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