dawnchild Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 (edited) So ive been dating this guy for over 2 months now, first bf for me (im 23). We met online of all places and have alot in common. He spoils the hell out of me, go for dinner, movies etc. Quite the gentleman (hes 26) and so funny to talk to etc. Its almost too perfect really haha. Now when I first met him we had coffee the first date and the next day we planned to meet for second date. Ended up going to my house for movie and somehow the chemistry was so hot it ended up going all the way, I instigated it unfortunately, never met quite a guy like him. Anyways since then we have hung out just about everyday except when my work out of town happens. Id say hes with me about 90% of the time. Almost like a sudden serious relationship. He also talks of getting a better paid job and saving up money as well as living arrangements. Stuff honestly a person shouldnt hear for only dating a couple months you would think? Now I am trying to slow things down, having chats and such. But im wondering if hes a little too clingy or desperate, already into the I love you stuff but at the same time trying really hard to impress me. I am very independant so its kind of confused the hell out of me. The other thing that is bothering me, since doing it the first night there hasnt been a session like that since. Its either I (him) want a BJ or 10 min of sex without foreplay and done. I have hinted many times but he says he wants to sleep or changes subject. Any suggestions? Edited July 5, 2011 by dawnchild
RedRussian8080 Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 If it was "perfect" you would not be here. He is not that in to you, i hope you can see that, or at least not the way you would like at this point. I say NEXT! As a MAN, no foreplay before sex and quick BJ's are for a girl i like just to have sex with because i got no one else. As a person he has no respect for you or like you. Being a funny guy my self, a very funny guy, humor is used often to deflect. next time you ask him something of importance to you, see if he makes some joke about it without really answering how he truly feels.
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