micot Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 hi all i'm new here , i've been reding these forums to try to get some advice but i don't see a situation on here like mine . my girl-friend [who now is recent ex ] is 50 yrs old. ,i am 47 . we had been together exclusively for 6 yrs , 6 good yrs .with no fighting,cheating,lieing etc . we met after she got out of a marrage and if fully divorced ,she has 2 teenage sons.the reason for her divorce was infidelity her husband cheated on her .i wasn't her rebound guy we've discussed that and they say re bounds do not last as long as 6 yrs.we were fully in love big time couldn't wait to see or talk to each other etc . about a month ago out of the clear blue she left me .she never actted like leaving was on her mindor anything .she never talked with me about leaving gave me no reason just left me . we've had low contact right after i got the 'i don't love you anymore' reply yet she states i clearly did nothing wrong . i fid out she is now with another ,he has kids ,i've run into her once and helped her put something in her car and noticed baby seats ,she has a full time job and says she is baby sitting now .i think it's the other guys kids . i talked with friends and they all seem to agree she left me for someone with kids for whatever her own reasons . and she must have cheated on me or at least met this new guy while we were together . in the begining of our relationship we talked about how we'd NEVER cheat or lie to each other and how we felt about each other and unconditionally loved each other. latly we are in no contact here .when i run into her i want to let her know what a selfish act she has made and what for becaause this guy has kids an she likes the family thing having kids around ,she has her 2 teenage kids of her own i'm really hurt and confused here
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