shadowofman Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 So I have decided that I'm going to wait for my dream girl. A petite female with curves, alabaster skin, black hair, and blue eyes. An Entomologist. Aggressively bisexual. Earthy, but not obsessively smug about it. A foundation the simple life, but with a mind focused on 2030. Kind but with a dark sense of humor. Not a breeder. On top of all that, some level of taste compatibility when it comes to art and scene. What's the chances I'll ever find that?
DreamerGirl27 Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 This is why I rely on looks as a first impression and then go from there. I have no set thing I am looking for personality. I want to be surprised. You're never going to find everything you're looking for, but as long as you're at least attracted from the get go, you can figure out if you like them as a person as well. I want to look at my future husband and be able to say, "I don't know what I was looking for, because I threw everything out the window when I met you". If you have some set thing that you want them to be like, you can never get to know a person for who they are. Nobody is going to have all those qualities. I'd rather meet someone I have an initial attraction to...maybe not "oh my God I want to jump your bones" attraction, but at least a general attraction and then get to know them from there. You don't like someone because of some preconceived notion of what they will be like, or what you want. You like someone for who they are after you get to know them. I think you are asking for too much. Just go with the flow and whoever you meet in life is who you're supposed to meet and wait until you find someone who strikes you as potential partner. But don't worry about anything else, or what they will be like, because you probably have no idea what the person you're gonna marry is gonna be like.
Author shadowofman Posted July 5, 2011 Author Posted July 5, 2011 Obviously I do have to go with the flow. Thing is, I've been with women that were incredibly attractive to me but incomparable morally, sexually, and in demeanor. And I've been with some of the most beautiful minds, but I wasn't all that attracted to them physically. I''m content with being alone forever, because I don't think I'll be able to settle anymore.
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