RoseBloodSweet Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 I have a boyfriend that I've been going out with for a little over a month. Before we started dating we were friends for a month so we could get to know each other. My ex from my last relationship that lasted 4 years, who I am best friends with to this day, thinks I'm spending too much time with my boyfriend and starting to become obsessive? He says I talk to him all day long, every day, and see him once a week, but for 7 sometimes 12 hours at a time. He says it's not more so the amount of time I'm spending, but how I have to have the time and sometimes seems like I can't go without it. I only see him once a week... I'm happy with this and don't need anymore time than that, and when I talk to him every day it's at night on Yahoo and I do text him often through out the day. I read somewhere that at the beginning of a relationship it's okay to spend a lot of time with each other so we can build up trust and etc. My friend is also mad at me, because we went away for a week at his families house for the 4th of July, and gets irritated when I text him often and...... strongly didn't want me to see him this weekend (but I did anyway, because I feel it's important) I was only away for several hours and came back.. so what do you think? =/
Lucky_One Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 You went away with your XBF to his family's for a week, and you say he is your best friend? Most people tend to call their SO their BF, not an XBF. And if you keep hanging out with your XBF like that and taking his advice about your current R's, you are going to run off a lot of current BFs. Why would you even trust your XBF's beliefs over what you believe yourself?
Author RoseBloodSweet Posted July 5, 2011 Author Posted July 5, 2011 (edited) Okay! So, I got 2 people out of the 50 that looked at my dilemma and didn't care enough to say anything, and even those 2 people didn't have anything to say about my actual issue. I don't care if you think me being so close to my EX is inappropriate. I DID NOT come here to be ignored or insulted.. all I wanted was an opinion of my actual problem here. All other opinions should be left at the door and taken with you on your way out! Guess I'm going back to Yahoo Answers. This is the SECOND topic I posted... and my problem was only observed, but not responded to. Oh, well! Edited July 5, 2011 by RoseBloodSweet
nothappyjan Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 Um how is seeing someone ONCE a week overcrowding them. Your ex is obviously trying to sabotage and you obviously are in strong denial so i pity your bf
ice salamander Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 Okay! So, I got 2 people out of the 50 that looked at my dilemma and didn't care enough to say anything, and even those 2 people didn't have anything to say about my actual issue. I don't care if you think me being so close to my EX is inappropriate. I DID NOT come here to be ignored or insulted.. all I wanted was an opinion of my actual problem here. All other opinions should be left at the door and taken with you on your way out! Guess I'm going back to Yahoo Answers. This is the SECOND topic I posted... and my problem was only observed, but not responded to. Oh, well! You're a damn fool. If you weren't best friends with your ex then this problem wouldn't even exist. Who takes priority here, your ex-bf or your real boyfriend? Because you want to be selfish and keep your ex boyfriend around for attention and maybe a good long hard c*ck when your current one doesn't do it for you, you are purposely ruining a good thing. Exes can't be true friends because one person will always want more. In this case it is your ex boyfriend, however you don't give a damn about him. You're quite content getting attention from two guys. I'm sure you're getting a lot more than attention as well. Dumba$$ women. I hope your boyfriend has the balls to say that being friends with an ex that is detrimental to your relationship is bull and dumps you back on the curb where you belong.
rafallus Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 Okay! So, I got 2 people out of the 50 that looked at my dilemma and didn't care enough to say anything, and even those 2 people didn't have anything to say about my actual issue. I don't care if you think me being so close to my EX is inappropriate. I DID NOT come here to be ignored or insulted.. all I wanted was an opinion of my actual problem here. All other opinions should be left at the door and taken with you on your way out! Guess I'm going back to Yahoo Answers. This is the SECOND topic I posted... and my problem was only observed, but not responded to. Oh, well! How did those two post insult you? Besides, yeah, don't you think your ex might have an ulterior motive in all the things he says? Or, more importantly, do you actually want to follow his motive?
Lucky_One Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 Okay! So, I got 2 people out of the 50 that looked at my dilemma and didn't care enough to say anything, and even those 2 people didn't have anything to say about my actual issue. I don't care if you think me being so close to my EX is inappropriate. I DID NOT come here to be ignored or insulted.. all I wanted was an opinion of my actual problem here. All other opinions should be left at the door and taken with you on your way out! Guess I'm going back to Yahoo Answers. This is the SECOND topic I posted... and my problem was only observed, but not responded to. Oh, well! Yahoo Answers is a good place to get relationship advice? Oh my aching a$$...... Go ahead then. Bye.
Els Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 I don't think your ex's opinion of the time you spend with your bf matters at all. What do you and your bf think about the amount of time you spend together?
make me believe Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 Uhh wtf? Your ex is obviously jealous and needs to mind his own business. He "strongly didn't want you to see" your bf? Seriously??! What gives him the right to even have an opinion about when you see your bf? He is trying to control you and sabotage your relationship. Tell him to get a life. He is NOT your "best friend," he is your jealous ex.
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