Mr. Savage Posted July 4, 2011 Posted July 4, 2011 My whole story is long so I will make it super short. 2 months ago ex wanted "time away" from the relationship to get her life in order. She asked me to wait for her and I said I would. Last week she started dating another guy from where we work. All throughout last week I went through a period of re-evaluating everything about the relationship and came to peace with the situation. If she wanted to be with someone else and not me that is her choice. I moved on.....or so I thought. This weekend I run into someone else from where we work and of course my ex gets brought up. I then begin to find out all the dirt on her. For the two months of our "time apart" with me waiting for her she was hooking up with at LEAST 4 if not 5 other guys from where we work!!!!! And I am not even sure if the basis of some of these hookups were not established well before we broke up. I'm not sure if sex was involved in any of these but I feel so discusted right now its not even funny. I was at total peace with knowing that she wanted to move on to another man (ONE MAN!!). But this just makes me sick to my core. In my mind she is the lowest common denominator of human being right now. Last week I had no problem just breezing by her but I now I have to hold back every fiber in my body from scowling at her with a look of discust that matches my feelings for her! I truly HATE this woman now, as much I don't want to admit this I can not help it. I hope this feeling can go away. I am looking for women to date on Plenty of Fish and going out but all this set me back really bad. How would some of you take hearing this info? How would you handle it?
krifle04 Posted July 4, 2011 Posted July 4, 2011 Atleast she isn't making an emotional connection with a new guy. Just getting her physical/attention fix that most girls for some strange reason always crave. Just makes you realize she's not worth your time.
Recommended Posts