civibf Posted July 4, 2011 Posted July 4, 2011 Well! I don't even know where to start. I started posting here a few months ago when my gf had broken things off just before I was to move there for a few months between school semesters. The short story is that we had been together 8 months LD (15hr drive), saw each other every 4-6 weeks, she's in the military. 7 weeks before the end of my semester, she finds out she's getting posted to a ship (which won't sail til the end of the summer anyway). 3-4 days before I'm supposed to move there she has a freak out, can't handle me leaving my life to move in with her, tells me there's too much pressure, and she ends it (end of April). NOW, she ended up sailing earlier than thought and she was gone for 6 weeks. She sends me a text the other day asking if we can chat later that night. We end up speaking on the phone for 3 hours. Apparently she had just got off the ship that day and texted me first thing. We spoke for 3 hours and it felt like old times. I told her my feelings rushed back when I saw the text from her. Told her I missed her. She told me the same. She told me she apologized for freaking out the way she had at the end of the relationship. We kind of just ended the call amicably. It felt like she had something to say, but just couldn't say it. So now what!? I would take her back if she wanted. I already sent her an email back when it first ended saying we should try and give it time, but she shot me down saying she had made her decision. I feel like I want to talk to her again and ask her to give it another shot. Am I misreading the situation? Am I just setting myself up for another kick in the nuts? lol
crazylove Posted July 4, 2011 Posted July 4, 2011 How did you end the conversation? Was it open to call again? I'd maybe play this one cool for a bit. Don't just rush in again. Wait for her to come to you. You could be setting yourself up for hurt again, so just try to be cool (easier said than done lol). Good luck!
Author civibf Posted July 4, 2011 Author Posted July 4, 2011 Yeah, we hadn't spoken in 2 months or so. So it ended like "it was really nice talking to you, let's definitely not wait for so long to chat next time". Cool is definitely easier said than done! haha
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