little_bear Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Tuesday night I went to a patio with a bunch of my coworkers. One guy I work with was already there with some of his friends and he ended up joining us after his friends left. We were all a bit tipsy and him and I got into an intimate conversation excluding everyone else (not on purpose). Everyone starting making fun of us, telling us to go get a room. By this point we had all drank quite a bit more and he started telling me that he has had a thing for me the entire time he has worked there (only a few months), that I am the prettiest girl in the office, and that he was usually afraid to talk to me. He kept holding my hand and started acting really boyfriendy. He said some really sweet things that I was really surprised to hear because he usually seems so aloof like one of those over-confident, jocky guys. Now I'm not sure if he was saying this stuff to try to get into my pants or if he actually meant it. He kept going to one of my friends the next day at work, seeming really insecure and asking her over and over again if he had acted like an ass. I hadn't seen him at work until today and for the most part he avoided me but at one point he came to my desk with a big grin on his face and asked me how I was. Then I got busy with a client so he walked away and I never got to see him again. My friend thinks he is just embarrased of how he acted and that is why he is avoiding me. I actually really like him and I'm not sure how to procede.
Author little_bear Posted July 3, 2011 Author Posted July 3, 2011 well I'm not sure if he meant any of what he said or if he was just feeding me lines to try and sleep with me. Would a guy say stuff like that to try and sleep with a girl?
Art_Critic Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Would a guy say stuff like that to try and sleep with a girl? hahahahaha.............YES..... and that is what he did.. even if he meant it he still said it to get in your pants..
welikeincrowds Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 well I'm not sure if he meant any of what he said or if he was just feeding me lines to try and sleep with me. Would a guy say stuff like that to try and sleep with a girl? Some guys will try to sell water to a well. But you didn't tell us much of what he told you. What you did share doesn't sound unbelievable to me. You don't have to commit to him, emotionally or otherwise, to see what he's about. You will have a lot more to go on after a date or two with him.
betterdeal Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 You like him and he likes you. It'd be nice to clear the air, so tell him that. He sounds a bit shy (that often comes across as aloof if he's trying to be confident). So tell him you'd like to go for a drink / coffee / somewhere sometime to clear the air and get to know one another better, because you like him too. You don't have to promise him anything or do anything you don't want to. See how that goes.
Author little_bear Posted July 3, 2011 Author Posted July 3, 2011 LOL thanks guys. We'll pretty much be stuck with each other all tomorrow I think so keep your fingers crossed for me and we'll see what happens. But one more thing to add; I was always under the impression that if a guy wants a girl, he'll do whatever it takes to get with her.
Ruby Slippers Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 I was always under the impression that if a guy wants a girl, he'll do whatever it takes to get with her. Within reason, you are correct. If a guy really likes you, no minor fumbles or embarrassing incidents will keep him from asking you out and getting closer to you. I think he will ask you out soon. And as for whether he wants to have sex with you, yes, he does. If a guy likes you, he wants to have sex with you. It's just that some men are more confident about going for what they want than others. Some want just sex, and some want love, too. If you go on a few dates before having sex, you should get a better read on what his intentions are.
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