Templar Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 (edited) Its a simple story, I dated a girl on the rebound for 4 months, it was a bad relationship, she wasn't ready for any kind of emotional commitment, she didn't make me feel like any kind of priority, and we worked exclusively around her schedule. Eventually I confronted and she broke up with me because "She wasn't ready for my kind of relationship". So I pretty much said "Sorry it didn't work out, goodbye". After she broke up with me (on the phone) I never called, never texted, went NC from day one. Being pissed off about the way she dumped me made it easy. We're now 3 weeks out, I'm doing well, going on a second date with a girl who is a lot less ****ed up, and what happens. . .my ex calls me and wants to meet up to hang out. I of course still have some feelings for her, its only been a few weeks, but the relationship was complete **** and I wouldn't ever go back to it. I was NC right away, no begging, no hoping, no nothing. I was happy to be out even though I missed her. Why would she be calling me now to "hang out"? Edited July 3, 2011 by Templar
kingofhearts Posted July 4, 2011 Posted July 4, 2011 She sounds like she's getting a taste of guilt, bro. "Maybe I was an arsehole?" is what she's telling herself, plus she's not getting all of the attention that you were giving her. You robbed her of it and now she's looking for it. Keep moving on. She was a rebound anyway..... Come to think of it...... I was a rebound to one of my ex's. Never thought about this before, but I was really trying to make things work. She treated me like **** (cheated) and I cut out. Got real cold towards her. That didn't sit too well with her at all, but eh......
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