La Bonita Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 I have been with my husband for 10 years, but only been married for 2 years I have two beautiful girls that are his and I have two boys from my first relationship. He is a great dad loves his girls but he is not the same with the boys the boys have nothing to do with their real dad he hasn't been in the picture since they were little. He is really hard on the boys. He is a hard worker doesn't drink or smoke or goes out with his friend basically he is a workaholic, but I'm getting really tired ofhim being so tight with his money. I work my butt off to have what we have. I provide from my boys I don't get one single dollar from him but just for the girls he gives me money. Ya he pays the rent and the insurance but the rest I have to take care and I'm really getting tired of I'm from pay check to pay check and does he even ask if I need or want anything "no".,,, sediment want to anywhere cuz it involves money,, I believe I'm a responsible mother I work and put my part in the house expenses. We fight so much now that my boys r getting tired of him are starting to hate him. But I think about two little ones. Just a year ago he got a support order from child support of $22,000 dollars I'm so upset and pist off cuz all my dreams that I had planed went down hill. And he is doesn't want to pay he said he would just leave the country. I'm so upset I don't know what to do and the ****ty part is that I'm married to him. We fight so much I sometimes hate him I've left him twice and allhe does is promisethat he going to change and things will be different. I'm tired of all that I have so much hate inside of he for everything that he has put me through. I can't stand his kid I'm so mad cuz he won't even be a good step father to my kids but my kids see all that and they are hurt and I tell him and he don't care. Later his crying and wanting me to come back ... well I think enough I'm confused and don't know what to do I'm scared of having to started all over again or maybe of being a single mom again.... please need some advice.
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