bertie29 Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Basically I started seeing this amazing guy from work over a year ago but I am afraid to say I wasn't ready and my ex was still in my life. We had a fantastic friendship and would chat for hours on the phone everyday any way we when out for a few dates which I would always withdraw from him after, then he got a new job and I realised that he would leave so I told him how I felt and we went out ended up together that night. He tried calling me the next day and text for the next few days telling be it would be hard to get over me which I ignored, felt confused and guilt towards my ex. Anyway he left and we kept in contact for a while, he would call me a lot at the start sometimes call me when he had been out drinking!! Anyway we lost contact for about 5 months, then suddenly he was back from his training and out of the blue he contacted me I was suprised but text him back and didn't really think anything of it. Since he has been back he has tried calling - I never answered his calls not because I didn't want to talk because I either missed the call and realised a couple of hours later he had called or I was asleep. He always asks about me through a mutual friend. Anyway I started thnking about him a lot and wish he had never come back in my life as I have realised I have really strong feelings for him. Anyway I text him said I was sorry for the way I behaved and and that I had been thinking about him a lot and that I was vunerable before. I heard nothing!! So I left it for a few weeks then text him he text back a few times and this went on for a couple of weeks he somtimes initiated the contact. Then I text him a couple of weeks a ago just to ask him how he was - no reply I thought he was just busy!! So 1 week lated I text him again - no reply!! I haven't heard from him for 3 weeks and I haven't tried to contact him!! I don't understand what he wants or what I am suppose to do!! Why would he contact he chase me again, was it because he was confused and when I have told he I care he has gone!! Why is it because he is scared or is it because he is not interested. I have tried to show him I care that I would like to see how it goes or does he feel that if he does i will hurt him again? Do I leave him alone because he is clearly not interested?!! Or do I fight for him in the risk I will push him away which way do I go? I DONT undertand!! Some insite would be great!!
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