Deep Black Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Hey all, my friend suggested this forum, and so I thought I should give it a try. Perhaps you guys can give me some clarity. So about two weeks ago, I got together with an old flame, and we decided to see where this could go. I haven't met him yet. All conversation so far has been via the net and phone. He's a DJ, and is really busy all the time. I don't mind that - He can take his time. But what causes me a bit of discomfort is that, he is just surrounded all the time by these really really attractive women. From the photos that he keeps putting up on FB, and the way he seems to interact with them makes me feel a bit uncomfortable, as much as I hate it. I can't help but wonder! It's not that I am not attractive, but it's just that if I have to be like those women, I'll probably have to walk around naked! i want to be different from them. I want to make a good impression without having to resort to being slutty. Above all, I want to show him that I am a smart, caring and funny woman. Help!!!
thatone Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 (edited) be yourself. he's surrounded by slutty women, if they are who he wanted he wouldn't give you the time of day, he would be satisfied with what's around him. starting off with jealousy is a recipe for failure. starting off confident in yourself will leave you content no matter what happens. simply be smart, caring, and loyal and all of those other things that they are not. if that's what he's after his interest will persist. Edited July 3, 2011 by thatone
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