itslife123 Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 My ex left me about this time last year...she immediately got with another guy..and she would still periodically hit me up an say she missed me but stayed with him..in may she broke up with him and said she wanted to see me..i wanted to see her and said i'd love to have a second chance..she then the very next day got back wit him an ignored my calls and texts....so about 3 weeks ago she broke up with him for good an called me 2 nights ago and asked how my dad was doing..an I said that its best that we don't talk..and i hung up..she immediately sends me a text message saying "i hope you think about me when your sleeping another girl, goodnight an mi mi's(we use to say that every night before going to sleep)...an attached was a picture of her...I really love her..and want to get back with her.. but i don't want her to be playing a game with me again and get back wit her ex...so today i said i hope your having a wonderful day, an she immediately texts back saying you to with a smiley . what do i say to get her back..because right now i cant tell if she's messing with me again..or really would like to get back..the reason we broke up was because i had lied to her about a few things about my family..i was scared she was going to leave me..so what do i say? should i wait for her to call me out of nowhere again like 2 nights ago? or do i call her up an say we should hang out sometime..my birthday is coming up on the 15'th.. i would love to have things good again with her.. but i don't no if it's gonna happen..well any input is good input at this point.. thank u all..
Virgil Posted July 4, 2011 Posted July 4, 2011 My input: Go no contact. You both need to clear your heads and think about this stuff. Obviously, if she texts you then talk to her. But nothing long and nothing deep. Short and simple; to the point. In my opinion, she's toying with you. I think she's building you up to knock you down. That's just what I think though. But only you know what's really going on. If you want her and if you think you can trust her in a relationship (and I mean really trust her), go for it. I wouldn't, but every situation is different. Good luck.
iceweasel6 Posted July 4, 2011 Posted July 4, 2011 It's really your call. You told her your intentions (wanting to be in a relationship with her), but she went back to her ex. Before you try again, ask yourself a simple question - what has she shown you differently this time that makes you believe she will respond differently - or more specifically - positively to your request?
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