Mnesic Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 (edited) My story >> http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t285226/ Well My ex contacted me on the 1st at 12:08 AM.. First she called me but I ignored it and then she texted me saying. " I called to see how you were doing, I hope your ok . I think I know what she is trying to do but I want to get your guys and girls perspectives on this.. I've been NC since I found out she was dating another guy, and I didnt respond to her trying to contact me Edited July 3, 2011 by Mnesic
RodG Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 (edited) My story >> http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t285226/ Well My ex contacted me on the 1st at 12:08 AM.. First she called me but I ignored it and then she texted me saying. " I called to see how you were doing, I hope your ok . I think I know what she is trying to do but I want to get your guys and girls perspectives on this.. I've been NC since I found out she was dating another guy, and I didnt respond to her trying to contact me How long has your NC been? And how long ago did you break up? Bread crumbs either way. Edit: I read your previous post with more info. Don't reply to her! Edited July 3, 2011 by RodG
RIO5 Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 This is easy. The girl was shady towards you so why waste another second of your life on her? She wants your attention and she got it! And you actually cared that she did contacted you. If you didnt, you would blow this off and not tell other people about it. I sense that you might continue talking to her...be very careful!! Again this is super easy: you called her out on her bluff. So why be with a girl who has no integrity? Its simple: dont talk to her. Give her the deuces!
Author Mnesic Posted July 3, 2011 Author Posted July 3, 2011 Thanks for the post guys! I just checked out her blog for the first time in a while.. and I just saw a post that she put on her blog an hour before she contacted me , shes having some minor conflict with her new guy. So I guessed she contacted me just because she wasn't getting enough attention from the new guy.
nana841121 Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Probabely you have already known that she doesn't worth your attention, but part of you still wonder about her motivation. it's ok. just don't contact her, and don't give her the second opportunity to get invovlved into your life. whirlwind.
Author Mnesic Posted July 3, 2011 Author Posted July 3, 2011 Wow she called me again an hour ago to ask if i had her hoodie lol
wilsonx Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 shes playing games with you, dont respond. you do not want her in your life. do you really want someone that was cheating on you at least emotionally back in your life. Seriously? You broke up with her, you were right, stick to your guns and ignore her forever my ex is actually for the first time in a month respecting my wishes and leaving me the **** alone and shes actually afraid to contact me. So she plays stupid mindgames with my roommate.
Author Mnesic Posted July 3, 2011 Author Posted July 3, 2011 shes playing games with you, dont respond. you do not want her in your life. do you really want someone that was cheating on you at least emotionally back in your life. Seriously? You broke up with her, you were right, stick to your guns and ignore her forever my ex is actually for the first time in a month respecting my wishes and leaving me the **** alone and shes actually afraid to contact me. So she plays stupid mindgames with my roommate. Yeah man forsure.. Its funny how karma is taking action.
Graceful Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Yeah man forsure.. Its funny how karma is taking action. Hey, great job, Mnesic. You're doing everything right. Do you have her hoodie? So lame. Seriously, that is pathetic. She's so transparent. Isn't it a great feeling to see right through her and "see" her for who she is? To know she's not your problem anymore? She's someone else's problem, so let him deal with her. Makes life so much sweeter.
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