MandyC18 Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 From almost getting back together, to mixed signals, to no contact, and now confusion? I'm really taking this hard..really hard: first serious relationship, first love, and first for a lot of things. We went no contact for about 3days and i chatted him on fb and no response. I didnt know how to take it, i texted him the next night during a movie..no response till this morning. He was a little confused about my text and i asked him why was ignored, he said i was making a big deal out of it when i was honestly just curious so i could know what to do with myself. We left it at a sarcasticy ending so idk what that means either. Last night i was on his profile and i looked through his profile pictures to see a new girl like his photo. I click her name and go to her pics to see he has "liked" two of them! Maybe im over reacting but maybe he as moved on? Im taking this so hard, because im such an optimistic person its hard for me to let go of hope and belief that everything wil fall back in place. There are days where i feel strong and i tell myself its okay you now let him come to you and etc...then there are days like right now where idk how i can make it to the next day being single again... Advice..this is has been the most stressful and emotional toll on my life relationship wise. If i finally do no contact, i hope the role reverse because i want to feel wanted and loved again..by him. Ive said this before oh no contact no contact but i guess it starts today.. Is it going to be okay...am i?
andyg99 Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Is it going to be okay...am i? YES! 100% - you are going to be fine... spend time with good friends and family... stay busy, these things do get better
california15 Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 You'll be okay! I promise. Not only does time heal, its what you do with that time to heal. You're just having a bad day. They're expected. We all have them. We all get through them too. NC is hard. But its so worth it.
Author MandyC18 Posted July 3, 2011 Author Posted July 3, 2011 its so hard, especially being so optimistic i believe everything will be okay...and its hard facing the facts. Maybe he will realize sooner or later what his heart wants was right in front of him..he's been listening to more of his mind
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