HeartOfAPhoenix Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Yes, it's the same guy...when I was breaking up with him, he told me that he thought that girl had cheated on him, something he failed to mention at that time... Thank you to everyone who defended me. No, I am not a slut... I am only 19 years old, I feel like I have many people to meet in my life. I've read a lot of the people who called me a 'slut''s posts... and they seem to be bitter about the fact that their girlfriends have dumped them under similar circumstances. I don't want to start any arguments here, but you should try to understand both perspectives before jumping to conclusions about other people. I'm not even 20.... think about that....my sole interest isn't in banging other guys... I apologize for bringing the "slut" topic into your thread and instigating the other posters into calling/agreeing that you are a slut. In all honesty I didn't mean for this outcome, I should have worded it differently and in the form of a question. So I sincerely apologize to you... sorry. Hate to pull this card, but You kind of sound like me, when I was your age, phoenix. Up until my last ex, I had zero tolerance for my gf's messing around with other people. I just had a thing with rejection. I didn't want to see that person again if they thought they could do better than me. I think my current ex would be the first and only one I'd ever take back. We had a deep love and friendship and if she banged 3 guys over the next month and came back to say she's done, it was a mistake and I'm ready.... her being ready would be all that mattered to me. Point is.... I really have matured on my views since. My jealousy, pride, and insecurities faded over time. I feel like I become more responsible and considerate for everyone's happiness, instead of just my own. lol I think I'm working backwards from you then. When my ex dumped me and for about 2 months after I felt like she could sleep with however many guys she wanted to and if she came back I would take her back without any problems. Now I'm thinking that if she could just throw me out and try to do better, I'm not going to put up with that.
Author lemonlegs Posted July 4, 2011 Author Posted July 4, 2011 I apologize for bringing the "slut" topic into your thread and instigating the other posters into calling/agreeing that you are a slut. In all honesty I didn't mean for this outcome, I should have worded it differently and in the form of a question. So I sincerely apologize to you... sorry. ........lol I think I'm working backwards from you then. When my ex dumped me and for about 2 months after I felt like she could sleep with however many guys she wanted to and if she came back I would take her back without any problems. Now I'm thinking that if she could just throw me out and try to do better, I'm not going to put up with that. It's alright, no worries. My boyfriend has cried to me so many times and it's so heartbreaking to hear and/or see. He tells me that he'll "wait" for me because I told him that maybe I am being stupid and naive for wanting to give up such a great guy. That's the risk I'm taking though, and I would never expect him to wait around for me. I don't think he will... I think that's something everyone says to themselves after being dumped as I've been the dumpee before too. Then it gets to the point that you realize that they're not as perfect as you make them out to be. He tells me I'm "the one", and though it's cliche, I do believe everything happens for a reason. If he truly loves me and I am "the one" then I guess we can work out any problems at a later date. If I'm not "the one" then that means one of both of us will find someone else and be happy.
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