Wolf18 Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 What are some things to keep in mind when gaming women on the street? I know it's really hard to do cold approaches, but I was wondering what time is the best for approaching women (day time or night time?), what places are they the most open to talking to strangers (grocery stores, etc).
LadyFlame Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 Don't bother. I don't take any guys who chat me up on the street seriously.
mo mo Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 Don't bother. I don't take any guys who chat me up on the street seriously. Fair enough. I don't take women who go on strolls around town wearing sexy revealing clothing that get mad when men look seriously either. I guess we are even then!
Nexus One Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 Don't bother. I don't take any guys who chat me up on the street seriously. But sometimes as a guy you have no choice. If you see a girl/woman you're attracted to and you'd like to get to know her, then your only option is to approach her then and there. I understand it can give off a player vibe, but there are genuine guys out there too.
alphamale Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 picking up strange chicks randomly in public places has a hit rate of about 1%....unless you're a famous rock star or actor
Author Wolf18 Posted July 2, 2011 Author Posted July 2, 2011 picking up strange chicks randomly in public places has a hit rate of about 1%....unless you're a famous rock star or actor So if I ask 100 , one will say yes? I just want to get laid I don't care
Nexus One Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 picking up strange chicks randomly in public places has a hit rate of about 1%....unless you're a famous rock star or actor Intuitively you'd think that would be the case, but for the players I know that is not the case, they have much higher "hit ratios" than 1%, that I know for sure.
sm1tten Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 What are some things to keep in mind when gaming women on the street? I know it's really hard to do cold approaches, but I was wondering what time is the best for approaching women (day time or night time?), what places are they the most open to talking to strangers (grocery stores, etc). The only places I talk to strangers (other than a bar) are the grocery store and public transportation, and you'd have to be hot as fire and charming as ... whatever can be most charming, in order for either of these to work well enough for me to let you in my pants, which is what you're after.
Dust Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Don't bother. I don't take any guys who chat me up on the street seriously. Didn’t you claim to have sex with some random dude you met playing pool and post about how you weren’t sure if it was just a sex thing or if he wanted to see you again? Didn’t you also post about how you want to hook up with guys you work with? Why are you giving this guy such a hard time?
Dust Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 The only places I talk to strangers (other than a bar) are the grocery store and public transportation, and you'd have to be hot as fire and charming as ... whatever can be most charming, in order for either of these to work well enough for me to let you in my pants, which is what you're after. That’s the problem with the people who answer, they think it’s all about them. He doesn’t want to get in your pants, his best shot at that would be to flirt with you right now on this msg board if that was the case. He wants to meet a woman he likes. So the saying goes there are plenty of fish in the sea. He’s not trying to catch them all just one. I also highly doubt some one has to be hot as fire and more charming then charming to get you. Was your last boyfriend one of the hottest men in the world, or do you lower your standards when you meet a guy at work or something?
Shaun-Dro Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 What are some things to keep in mind when gaming women on the street? I know it's really hard to do cold approaches, but I was wondering what time is the best for approaching women (day time or night time?), what places are they the most open to talking to strangers (grocery stores, etc). You're gonna have to be random and spontaneous when you attempt it, or it will appear obvious that you're another creep. What usually works best is to not think of pickup lines, but rather just comment on something in the environment and see how she responds. If she starts talking then that will be your cue to continue.
Dust Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 What are some things to keep in mind when gaming women on the street? I know it's really hard to do cold approaches, but I was wondering what time is the best for approaching women (day time or night time?), what places are they the most open to talking to strangers (grocery stores, etc). If you’re in school class is one of the best times. If you’re not in school then just get out of the house. Do stuff you like and keep an eye out for women. When you see one you might have to go out of your way to go talk to her and ask her out. Then when you ask her out you make a move. You don’t just let the date end with out making a move. You also need to rinse and repeat and not fall back into your old ways. Say you were at the mall, or at the bank or what ever. You see a girl you like. She’s probably going to be doing something. I mean the chances of her sitting there waiving at you to come talk to her are slim. So you say excuse me, and then you just say something. You could mention the weather or the holiday weekend coming up it doesn’t matter. Just be smiley and if a situational joke comes up from something she says or something around you make her laugh. Really just try to enjoy talking to a pretty girl regardless of the outcome. Then since you’ll probably be negative and try to just act like you don’t know what to say next just ask her out. The worst that can happen is she says no. If she says yes then get her number and you’ll have a date for that night or the next night whenever you were both free. Don’t come on here and ask for advice you know what to do. You just make up excuses not to. Well just go out and do it and you’ll answer your own questions from your experience. Just stay positive and try and enjoy yourself don’t make it stressful. Girls say no, rejection will make you better. Now give us an update that you actually went out and talked to a girl and asked her out. If you get that date you better make move at least before you guys say goodbye. Hold her hand and kiss her. What ever. Just do something.
Shaun-Dro Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 If you’re in school class is one of the best times. If you’re not in school then just get out of the house. Do stuff you like and keep an eye out for women. When you see one you might have to go out of your way to go talk to her and ask her out. Then when you ask her out you make a move. You don’t just let the date end with out making a move. You also need to rinse and repeat and not fall back into your old ways. Say you were at the mall, or at the bank or what ever. You see a girl you like. She’s probably going to be doing something. I mean the chances of her sitting there waiving at you to come talk to her are slim. So you say excuse me, and then you just say something. You could mention the weather or the holiday weekend coming up it doesn’t matter. Just be smiley and if a situational joke comes up from something she says or something around you make her laugh. Really just try to enjoy talking to a pretty girl regardless of the outcome. Then since you’ll probably be negative and try to just act like you don’t know what to say next just ask her out. The worst that can happen is she says no. If she says yes then get her number and you’ll have a date for that night or the next night whenever you were both free. Don’t come on here and ask for advice you know what to do. You just make up excuses not to. Well just go out and do it and you’ll answer your own questions from your experience. Just stay positive and try and enjoy yourself don’t make it stressful. Girls say no, rejection will make you better. Now give us an update that you actually went out and talked to a girl and asked her out. If you get that date you better make move at least before you guys say goodbye. Hold her hand and kiss her. What ever. Just do something. It's true. Women look for any reason to reject a man and a million reasons not to reject him. It's all backwards. Things were easier in high school.
Imajerk17 Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 (edited) I agree with Dust. Women will say the kind of stuff that LadyFlame and smitten said, and in some cases they might be right. But there are plenty of women out there who openly appreciate a guy who steps up and makes a move. THOSE are the women you'd prefer to date anyway, because they get and appreciate men better. So it's really self-selecting--the women you would want to be with are more likely to respond positively to you anyway. You are usually better off going for setting up the date (if it is possible) right then and there when she is in front of you. And then maybe going for the number. If you just go for the number, it will often turn out to be "no good". Yes, it is really her number, but she won't pick up and she won't call or text you back because she came up with second thoughts about it, or she feels weird calling back a guy she hardly knows, or whatever. Momentum/personal inertia is your friend, and it's harder for people to back out of plans! (She'll either have to call or text you to cancel, or just no-show, and if the girl is a decent person, she'll feel bad about doing that. So she'll just show up for lunch or coffee because it would be the easiest thing for her to do.) You also look more assertive going for a date than just a phone number. Even if you set up the date and she says "why don't you call me" and you settle for her number, she will be more likely to pick up. Getting the phone # is the easy part, getting her to follow through is harder. Edited July 3, 2011 by Imajerk17
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