Author confusedgirl56 Posted July 2, 2011 Author Posted July 2, 2011 Hi everyone, Thanks for all your responses. I really appreciate your advice. It has become quite clear to me that sex is the only thing there is. There's nothing more. He told me at the beginning that he was looking for a gf and a committed relationship. But our chats and activities were sexual. I should have known better. I'm ready to move on now Enjoy the long weekend!
Ross MwcFan Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 It can if the girl is expecting a relationship, and the guy just wants sex. In that way, they're incompatible. Well, a girl ran up to me once and grabbed my crotch and she hadn't even introduced herself. And no I'm not joking. I was totally fine with it.
TaurusTerp Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 He probably thought you were gf material up until your bat**** crazy email saying you'd go get it from someone else because he had to work. WTF is wrong with you?
Author confusedgirl56 Posted July 3, 2011 Author Posted July 3, 2011 I think my response the next day is definitely not helping. Well, I've got to learn how to deal with sexual frustration better next time. Maybe a beer? I think all is okay. He still responds to all my messages and doesn't give me a hard time about what happened. Either he really likes me or he just doesn't care much.
Lucky_One Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 I emailed him the next day that I was turned on and wanted to see him the next day. Unfortunately, he had to travel for work. I got annoyed and said that I would look for someone else in the mean time. He didn't reply until I emailed him an hour later and said that I didn't mean it and would appreciate a chat later to feel better. I haven't made it past page 1, but yes, you moved too fast if what you want is a R, and of course he is in it only for sex, because you have made it clear that you want sex from anyone. "I am turned on, I want to see you. You can't make it? Fine, I will get someone else to scratch the itch." When you tell a guy something like this, he is going to think you will screw (or whatever) with anyone, just as long as you get satisfied.
Lucky_One Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 I think all is okay. He still responds to all my messages and doesn't give me a hard time about what happened. Either he really likes me or he just doesn't care much. Why are you texting him first? Of course he is going to respond. He knows you will give it up the next time that you are around in his area, assuming that he doesn't have other plans. Most guys don't try to mess up a sure thing by ignoring it.
Sanman Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Clearly you need to stop moving so fast and then saying things like you will find other guys to spend time with. Yes, he responds and I cannot tell you what he was/is thinking. However, I can tell you what this would say to me. I am looking for a gf, but if you acted the same way with me I would relegate you to just sex status. I would not stop talking to you, I would just put you in that category mentally. He may have done this, he may only be interested in sex, or he may want a relationship from you. However, I don;t think it would be entirely his fault if he wrote you off because of what happened. The HJ was not as big of a deal as the crazy emails. 1
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