pippa02 Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 Hi everyone! My boyfriend broke up with me in february after 4 years, was completly out of the blue. main reason was he wanted to move away for work and we decided long distance wasn't for us, especially as we are only 21. We have been talking for the last 5 months every so often! I am trying really hard too do no contact but every time I fail! I had just gone four weeks none contact, he had been texting me and I was'nt replying! I keep self sabotaging myself and tonight gave in and text back. everytime i give in I feel awful as soon as I send the message! I just want to be stronger. Anyone having same problems?
thelovingkind Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 Since it seems you parted ways on fairly congenial terms this is probably something you could talk to him about. It only needs to be a 2 minute conversation. Just let him know that it's nothing personal but it's easier for you to move on while out of contact and that if you're ready to be friends again at a later date then you'll get in touch. This will be much easier if you can get him to help you out by not initiating contact.
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