purplehouse Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 ok so recently i became in touch with a guy that i used to work with (and liked) We are going out on a date in about a week, still to confirm details. for 2 nights we were texting (initiated by him). Conversations were really good, lots of questions and confirmations about liking each other when we were working together and how he hopes he gets the chance to plan a second date at some stage. He ended the last text with 'sweet dreams x ' Keep in mind we are really attracted to each other and he's a shyish guy and the way we got back in touch was almost like 'fate' played a part. He has his kids this weekend (i have kids also). I didn't want him to feel like he had to continue with the night texting over the weekend seeing as he has his kids, so on friday afternoon i sent him one saying i hoped he was having a good day and that he enjoys his weekend with his kids. He replied promptly and said "thanks, 5pm can't come quick enough, I hope you enjoy your weekend also.:)" The thing is i think we were both enjoying the evening texting, and the light/fun contact. I feel like sending him that one on friday almost said 'i don't text on weekends' or something. its now saturday evening and i would love to send him one asking how his weekend is so far but would that seem wierd after my text to him on friday?? i know this seems silly really but we had a good momentum happening and i feel like i put a dampener on it... :S
thatone Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 it is silly, stop being that way. the only people who put emphasis on such games as who called who are shallow, adolescent, insecure, and/or mentally unstable.
SnowandStars Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 It's just a text message, geez. Text him! In fact, why not call? What is with all of the texting these days?
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