SnoringBeauty Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 My boyfriend and I had been together for 3 years and had been living together on and off throughout this time. We had a fight on his 40th bday (I'm 25), and when I got home from work, he had packed his things and left, no note, no call, wouldn't answer his phone. The next morning I got a call saying he was sorry, but wasn't coming back and for a few days was unresponsive. I finally convinced him to come talk to me and he promised to come back after he'd gotten back in town. He was only back a few weeks before taking a job a few hours awa. He told me he'd be home on the weekends and we spoke every day. After a few weeks he said he'd quit his job and was coming back home in a day or two which turned into weeks. It then came out from his best friend that he had been back home for a month and was living in a hotel room. His friend told me he had been cheating on me for quite awhile and he couldn't keep a job because he'd been cheating with fellow employees. I was hurt and angry especially because I'd been working so hard to support us since he couldn't and couldn't understand why he'd told me he was coming home and missed me if he had no intentions of doing so. After being broken up for a few weeks he called to say he needed to see me, he missed me, etc. I found the hotel he was staying at, with another girl. I left, changed my number, and moved on. 3 months later he showed back up wanting to work things out, he'd "seen the light", wanted to change, etc. We got back together , had a few rocky days, but one night he told me "I don't want to fight tonight, I love you, let's just have a good night." So we did. I went to work the next day, kissed him goodbye, he told me he loved me. I talked to him a few times at work, the last time he couldn't hear me so I just hung up, planning to call him back later. I got home that night, he'd stolen $1,000 from me, packed his things and left, no note, no calls, won't answer my calls. This is the third time. I just don't get it, this time around, things were getting better. I know he was stressed about not finding work still and everything, but he had a great girl willing to stick by his side throughout it all. So, why leave? Why not even say a simple **** you or ANYTHING? Now his phone is disconnected or he got a new #. I won't take him back this time, I'm moving on but I feel like I need some kind of answer for closure. Any ideas?
kingofhearts Posted July 2, 2011 Posted July 2, 2011 Oh, you got enough closure already! He's a manipulating jerk. Nuff said. Keep it moving, girl.
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