LSgirl Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 What do you do when your boyfriend of 6 months tells you in so many words he cares a lot about you (and truly shows that, very affectionate, honest, loyal, caring) but says he's so hurt from his past relationship with an ex-fiancee that deep down inside he may not ever love anybody the way he used to. When he drinks is when he says this (only when I ask, but I ask because I don't know where I stand). He said he can't throw love around but that I'm special to him and his favorite thing is making me happy and seeing me smile. I don't know what to do. I told him that this relationship was never going to emotionally deepen and that he should just leave me be than wait to end it later (when he plans to move in a couple years). He wants to keep traveling since he can't depend on anybody but himself. He said he doesn't want to break up with me because he really likes me but when I say he should just do me a favor and end it up, he says he's a mess and that I deserve somebody better. I'm so confused. Otherwise, everything is great, he "shows" he loves me even though I know he doesn't feel for me that way. Maybe 6 months isn't long for somebody who's been hurt in the past to feel something so strongly so soon since everybody is different. I just want to feel more secure in this relationship. He doesn't make any future plans with me, but when we're together it is awesome. What would you guys do?
RedRussian8080 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 OK this is easy, he is in pain messed up not ready, but he has you someone who gives him good times and pleasure. Even if he has no want for you or really need, he likes the good parts and pleasure like an addict, he knows he must quit you to make you happy from him, but it's hard because good time and pleasure are so good. Well poop, he is an addict, let him sober up and then tell you what he wants in a mean time you concentrate on your fine self and be happy from this emotional vampire and a weak man.
Recommended Posts