Griffin40 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 My girlfriend of a year just broke up with me 3 weeks ago we have had limited contact. She just started getting therapy and feels while she is in it, its not fair to me to be in the relationship. I love this woman and her two boys, which makes it really hard to just let go. Long story short she was married town abusive ex for 10yrs and I was thecomplete opposite of him (nice caring, good to her boys, her parents love me). She is doing a process of living in the now with her therapist and it seems to be working for her. I'm just not sure how or what steps I should be doing to get her back. She says she values our relationship but feels she is growing right now and justneeds some space and time. Should I give her a call from time to time?try and see her? I don't want her to feel as though I abandoned herby doing NC. Also I miss the boys it's like losing 3 relationships at once. Basically how is the best way to approach this?
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Do as she says and give her some space. Go no contact for a while, when/if she's ready she will seek you out.
Author Griffin40 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Posted July 1, 2011 I have been doing that we have text a couple times she wished me a happy fathers day as I have a son of my own. And then we briefly talk yesterday because I told her I didn't think it was a good idea for me to fly out to her family reunion. She had expressed to her friends she was nervous about me going and felt it would be akward. I think her ex has been tring to get back together with her as well.
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