MandyC18 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Yeah im back again, after posting mixed signals....i was more upset and angry. We had an okay conversation on June 27th, this was the conversation where he(my ex) got all protective about my status. Also i reminded him about his invite to spend the night at my house tonight or saturday (which is not happening). The conversation ended weird and i figured...wow after building up and being on great terms we are back at square one. So the next two days we go complete no contact?! We have had no contact before earlier in the month when things were rocky but to have it now was so out of the blue. We were going on day 3 of no contact when i was like what the hell atleast one last try (i broke my rule...) so i chatted him on facebook "helllo" and he signs off 2minutes later and posted a status "why am i so impatient" wow...he ignored me he would have gotten that chat as a message and later signs on and nothing. Alteast tell me no im not staying over rather than ignore me. Atleast right...after all we have been through. So im in pain and so is he..he may sound a**holeish but i know him inside and out and he is trying to deal with this is way. So i guess NC is really going to set in...but this time it will be him coming to me because its time for him to miss me and us and realize<3
samm84 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Ive always wondered if completely ignoring an ex is the right thing to do, especially if you have a long history together. Depending on how much friction there was in the relationship, going your separate ways might help each of you to refresh yourselves and approach each other as more coherent people. I feel like a bit of a hypocrite, but its so easy to advise people when your the one with the outside perspective! I must stress that you don't hold out hope that he will realise the error of his ways. Instead just enjoy the fact that he's none of your concern anymore, let all of the worry go.
Author MandyC18 Posted July 1, 2011 Author Posted July 1, 2011 i think ignoring them is just as hard as no contact or equal to each other. You dont have to ignore the person, its possible to have conversations and enjoy each others company without bringing up the relationship and what not. but maybe space is what we need to actually be able to miss one another and miss what we had thank you!
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