oaks Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Also, overly political men, men who keep reptiles and those who I could imagine clearly should have been given another name. Finally, someone with some genuinely silly deal-breakers.
Ghosst Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Well this thread is amusing, here are some of my silly dealbreakers: - is afraid of spiders....really? How can someone protect me if he is afraid of a little spider. - his mom is his best friend. - he does yoga. - he tips the ends of his hair blond. - he thinks sweat or track pants are acceptable to wear on a date.
udolipixie Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 My dealbreakers * are the ones I think are silly but all of my dealbreakers have been called silly by my guy friends. Apparently to them women shouldn't have dealbreakers. Most are my dealbreakers are attraction wise. If a guy has them I don't consider them in any romantic/sexual light. The rest are relationship concerns which will cause me to bail on a guy. not womanly in any way (character) smoking/drinking (character) criminal history (character) yeah I've been told this was a silly deal breaker multiple times o.O no sense of accountability (character. having a woe me attitude to his dating history or lack of one is) gross habits (thinking burping/farting is funny and should be done often, nose picking, coughing in something then use it to wipe your face/hands/etc) * afraid of insects * bad singer but still sings * bad dancer but still dances * dyes his hair needs to be made to feel manly ugly (attraction is needed) * stretchmarks overweight (attraction) * short (attraction I'm cool with average aka 5'10'') bad skin (attraction) bad teeth (attraction) * greasy hair (being able to touch it) baldness/thinning hair (attraction) bad breath/body odor (attraction) ugly feet (attraction) goatees/facial hair freaky fetish (sexual preference) short in another area (sexual pleasure) body hair (sexual preference) not sexually equal (you swallow your stuff then I will, you want anal let me dildo you first, you want facials let me throw a glass of your stuff in your face first) tries to control how I dress (relationship boundary) thinks sex is a duty (relationship boundary) neglects his body by not keeping fit (relationship boundary no man boobs, gut, pouch abs. it should be a two-way street you don't want me to blw up & I still want those abs) having a religion I have to convert to (relationship boundary) thinks the woman has to change her name during marriage & doesn't want hyphenated names for the kids (relationship boundary) expects me to cook, clean, and care for the kids or he just pitches in no it's 50/50 with the same quality no microwave food = home cook meal. (relationship boundary) gives me the benefit of the doubt & is trusting (relationship boundary)
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