LonelyIsland Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 This guy and I was seeing each other for a year. Then things ended because we both didn't want the same thing. He wanted a girlfriend but doesn't want to have the responsibility, I wanted to be official. He said was too busy with school and work to give me what I want. Everything ended March 2010. After I graduated, I sent him a text saying, "hi, how are you?". He never responded. I was extremely hurt, I really cared for this guy. So I deleted his number and his facebook. Fast forward to this past Monday (more than a year later). He texted me out of the blue (of course, I responded bc I had no idea whose number it was) saying he just thought of me and wanted to see how life is treating me. We texted back and forth, and he updated me on his new business and upgraded lifestyle. And the convo went from very dry and clear cut (from my side) to flirty and at ease. The last thing we text was: Him "Do you have any plans for the big 4th?" Me: "I dunno...do we?" Him: "Lol we can, imma prob be doin Kaboom town" Not the respond I wanted to get. I had one of my guy friends dissecting the convo, and he said my ex is trying to impress me. But the last text sounds like he's trying to get a quick laid. I'm so confused. I much gather he have not texted me. Can I get another view or input on what y'all think what's going on here?
vsmini Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Who can say. Doesn't sound like he want's to get back together and the reasons you broke up probably still hold valid. Don't talk to him. Now you're analyzing things and wanting to know what he thinks. Stay no contact with him. Better for everyone.
Yookie Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Unless he makes a point of telling you differently, you should assume he still doesnt want you to be his girlfriend. He's just checking in for a ego stroke. You being ready willing and waiting for him after all this time makes him feel desired.
RedRussian8080 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 I agree, guy will only contact his EX to get laid, OP you are silly girl who is naive if you don't know this by now.
RedRussian8080 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 "Me: "I dunno...do we?"" That was silly, childish and dumb thing to say.
motive2002 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 WHoa russian.. chill. He never responded. I was extremely hurt All the more reason not to put much faith into whatever he says. I dunno about you, but once bitten 100-times shy for me. Make him put in a bunch more effort before you ever consider dropping trou.
Author LonelyIsland Posted July 1, 2011 Author Posted July 1, 2011 "Me: "I dunno...do we?"" That was silly, childish and dumb thing to say. Actually, that text was written by the guy who helped me dissected the messages. He was helping me tapping into my ex's mind. I've never had any ex texted me for just sex, but I'm sure he might has sex in mind (I sure do), but I just want to know if there might be something a little more than just sex in his mind--like he misses me. He's not at all a bad looking guy, he can get any girl he wishes to, I'm just not sure why he's specifically texting me. I can't do much with him (relationship wise), I'm moving overseas in a month for a job.I would like to see him before I'm gone, but I just don't want to be a booty call.
vsmini Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Actually, that text was written by the guy who helped me dissected the messages. He was helping me tapping into my ex's mind. I've never had any ex texted me for just sex, but I'm sure he might has sex in mind (I sure do), but I just want to know if there might be something a little more than just sex in his mind--like he misses me. QUOTE] Good God woman - would you listen to yourself? dissecting a text message? tapping into his mind? Get over your ex - because if you were over him....there wouldn't be this much brain power going into such a silly text. Move on. It was just a text.
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