green_tea Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 So I met up with a guy from POF today. Bear in mind I am extremely picky and only meet up these days if I think the guy is impeccable. So I'd been emailing this guy for about 2 weeks and all was going well. He suggested we meet this week which I readily agreed to as he ticked all of my boxes so far, and I was on the verge of asking for a meet up anyway if he hadn't. I met him today at a bar close to my house. He was very attractive, outgoing and able to keep the conversation flowing. However the conversation flowed into something a little controversial and we disagreed (if you must know, the subject was free range vs caged eggs). I felt he was really condescending towards me, and I told him so. Things got awkward and silent and eventually I said I was going home, he said ok and I left and that was the end of it all. We had probably spent about 2 hours prior to that chatting amicably. I paid more for the night than he did (as is usual with me). I'm feeling low because this was the first guy in a long time that I thought I could actually see myself with. My friend says well at least I found out he was condescending early on rather than getting into something with him and finding out later, but I wonder if I could have handled this differently. What would you have done in my situation? (Difference of opinion on something important to you?) Was it wrong for me to just leave like that?
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