whoahman07 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 so i have been dating this girl for a couple months now. everything is great shes met my fam and they loved her. everything was fine. then all of a sudden she became a little distant. i finally called her out on it and she said that she is pushing me away (which she has admitted that she does when she starts to really like someone). she says she doesnt know what she wants. that she doesnt want to mess this up because she likes me a whole lot and i am everything she could ask for. she is in a sorority and obviously has a bunch of social events to attend but i have told her that i am not protective that she can go out and have her freedom and i dont care that i trust her. she says she doesnt want to hurt me and she doesnt expect me to wait around till she figures things out. but i really like this girl alot and i think we both can see ourselves in a commited/exclusive relationship with each other. should i back off a tad and hope that makes her want to be with me more? what approach should i take to make this less stressful? i am in no rush to become committed but i dont want to lose out on something that has potential by backing away a bit. should i not text her as much? what should i do?
rafallus Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 but i really like this girl alot and i think we both can see ourselves in a commited/exclusive relationship with each other. Hate to break it to you, but you're daydreaming. If she really saw herself commited with you, she wouldn't have to figure out jack ****. She would just be with you - and that's it. Nooooo, she wants to party and screw around. Any pursuit on your part will be masochistic.
RedRussian8080 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Don't be a fool bro, she is playing you and manipulating you, she is not playing hard to get or likes you. In fact, she is showing clear disrespect to you as a Man and a fellow human being. I wonder if roles were reversed what SHE would do?
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