numerical25 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 (edited) I just recently ran into a old friend from high school maybe close to 2 months ago. In high school we weren't really close but we always talk to each other through mutual friends. Ever since I ran into her at the mall, I been asking her to come out and hang out with me. And just about every time she has always accepted my invitations. The Good Signs We go out and dance drink, karaoke, we done some swing dancing together. Went to the movies. We've been doing alot. Last night we went to karaoke and one of my friends could of sworn we were seeing each other just by how we were acting together. Holding hands and dancing from time to time. But every time we go out its always a friendship type of go out. I will ask her to come out at the spur of the moment. I text her today and asked her to let me take her out this saturday. She said she was doing a gallery hop but she invited me to come. Sunday I am taking her to see fireworks by the lake and possibly on a boat. The Confusing Signs Despite all the good things, its hard to read her. Even though we done alot, most of the time its with her and her friend. I mean we went swing dancing together alone, karaoke was kind of between us. But most of the time its with her friend as well. Why I think she is shy is because prefers to talk via text or facebook. When I talk to her in person, I notice she looks away alot, she doesn't make alot of eye contact. I text her this morning and told her I hope she got up in time for work but she never responded. She asked me to go to cedar point but when she found out it was on a Thursday she said "Well I cant go, but you can still go with lisa and her guy friend and his friends". like i want to go with her friend and guy friend who i really don't know. She takes really long times to respond to my text messages. Despite this, I know she is really insecure about herself even though she is beautiful. i caught her talking to others saying that when she was in high school no guys really showed interest in her. I feel she think showing emotion is a weakness cause she doesnt like it when her friend does. she told me she feels her friend and her have alot to learn from each other cause her friend knows how to show more emotions to guys but she doesnt. but at the same time, her friend is always getting let down by guys. Whats going on here ? I personally believe opposites attract. I feel we are almost the same type of people. I am shy when it comes to relationships. I think she is too. I want to do more then grab her hand from time to time. I want to kiss her but I am afraid she my turn away. I think we are really good friends to the point that it sometimes feels wierd to even think of having sex with her lol. But people want friends first, lovers second, and thats what I see in this type of relationship. Edited July 1, 2011 by numerical25
rafallus Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 I really don't see anything here suggesting she's into you romantically.
RedRussian8080 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 It's VERY easy to tell, because when she is in to you, you will know and have no doubt.
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