AlisaMarie Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 I was coming back from the park with my friend and our kids and their friends yesterday. Oddly, I stalled leaving the park... took an extra drive around the block because a song we liked was playing and then pulled up in front of my house only to see my ex coming toward me in his car on my street. My street is a side street that wouldn't be used to "pass by." So he stopped, window down, glared at me (my window was up). I looked at him- and just kept driving. He sat there for a moment... then left. Not a text, not a call, NOTHING. He still hasn't made any attempt to explain what he wanted or why he was there. I'm intrigued to ask... but I should probably consider it a stalking moment and keep pressing forward. Idk... HELP.
Author AlisaMarie Posted July 1, 2011 Author Posted July 1, 2011 We broke up a 4 times btw... all to his discretion. Dumper's remorse?
sun_moon Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Don't. Do. Anything. Except smile, laugh, and maybe ponder in curiosity. I repeat, don't do a thing.
geegirl Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Don't do anything. I have a feeling he was trying to get you to react. Don't give him the satisfaction. If he had something of substance to say, that was the perfect opportunity. But he did a Jedi mind trick on you and now you're curious. He's sitting there thinking, "Alisa is at some point going to come around. After all she's come around 4 times." Keep NC. A drive by and a stare means nothing.
Author AlisaMarie Posted July 1, 2011 Author Posted July 1, 2011 Thank you friends. It was just bizarre... I mean he could have announced his arrival... I feel as if he had a speech prepared if I happened to be with anther guy or something. Or... if I were to question busting him doing a drive by he wouldv'e made up some reason for lurking. Miss analyzer! That's me. Who cares anyway. He's a douche. eff it.
geegirl Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Yep, don't analyze stupid behavior. Waste of time! And being a douche is even more incentive for you to chuck him!
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