wheream_i Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 I'll start by saying that I am 100% the bad guy and the reason for the demise of my relationship. So I'd like to know from those out there, what's the worst thing you ever did to an SO that caused you to lose them? And what's the worst thing that was ever done to you?
quankanne Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 worst thing he'd ever done to me? Showed a total lack of respect by gloating about the fact that he was sleeping with others toward the end of our relationship, instead of saying "It's not working, I don't want to be with you anymore." worst thing I'd ever done? Heh heh ... told everyone what a lousy lay he was and that I'd only slept with him again (ahem, twice) after a long break just to see if he really was that bad. And he was :laugh::laugh:
TheVSilent Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Worst thing I ever did was calling her fat and not showing her any sort of respect. How dumb can I be? Apparently pretty dumb.
FeelingSmall Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 I STILL feel really, really bad about this. I was really paranoid my b/f was seeing someone else so I started going through his email (He had given me the password but not permission to look) There was nothing there, NOTHING, he was completely innocent. I told him immediately, he didn't even get angry. He just said he was sad that I didn't trust him. I wished he had yelled and got furious. Not doing so made me feel even worst.
Mr.Harris Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 The worst thing I ever did to a former SO that caused me to lose her was that I lied to her about my true profession. The worst thing that ever happened to me was being cheated on by my ex-wife.
Author wheream_i Posted July 1, 2011 Author Posted July 1, 2011 Were you embarrassed by your real profession or just trying to impress her? The worst thing I ever did to a former SO that caused me to lose her was that I lied to her about my true profession. The worst thing that ever happened to me was being cheated on by my ex-wife.
Mr.Harris Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Were you embarrassed by your real profession or just trying to impress her? It was actually for security reasons.
Southofthebay Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 (edited) I lost the love of my life. I was her first in any sexual way, she had my name tattooed on her and everything. She is so beautiful(at least at this point). Now I wait impatiently, hoping that text I heard was her. The worst thing I did was talk to other women. She never caught me cheating because I technically(or physically) never did. I would some times just talk bull-**** to girls on text, I always saw it as the same as going to a strip bar, but that's not the case. I never took any girl serious. This last time she caught me texting a girl, I told the girl she was beautiful, but my ex said she read something along the lines of me getting with this girl and that I was trying to be her boyfriend, which is not the case. I dug my whole deep and I just burried myself in it. Now her whole family knows and they wont ever let her see my dumb ass again. Lost the love of my life(thus far) over some stupid text to some girl I've never even met. She would always tell me if this relationship ends it will be because I did something stupid. I did the most stupidest, dumbest, idiotic, unthougtful thing I've ever done in my life, even worst than going to jail a couple years back(she was there through the whole ordeal). Honestly. I got cheated on by my first real girlfriend of a year and a half. I'm sure I did. She said she was leaving me because she wasn't in love with me anymore. I took it hard, but during this time is when I met the ex I have now, she took me by the hand and I never looked back. That break up was easy, because I transfered all those emotions I had of getting cheated on by my ex ex and instead built a new relationship with a much better girl that liked me for some reason. Unfortunately I ****ed up on the girl that did so much for me. Edited July 1, 2011 by Southofthebay
Feelin Frisky Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 I broke it off for a main reason that she got violent with me and I reciprocated. I won't have that. No one hits me and I don't hit anyone.
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