lilcutiex55 Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 I've been seeing this guy for almost 2 months.. When we met I was involved with someone, which I told him, however not anymore. And I asked if he was seeing someone he said he was, but not anymore. Within a month we slept together and ever since then he's been disappearing. We see each other once a week, or even less, due to our schedules. He bartends at night almost every day of the week. And during the day I'm working, so we try to see each other on his days off. Last week we spent the night together, he disappeared for a couple days. I confronted him, said I thought it was strange, and it makes me feel like all he wants is sex from me. And he said that it's ridiculous, he doesn't just that from me, and he's just been very busy studying and bla bla bla, and how sorry he was. But my personal opinion is if you life someone, regardless of how busy you are, you will make an effort, it takes 2 seconds to send a text. I didnt get to into it, I just said I'm glad we talked. So after that he texted me every day. And we hung out before yesterday, didn't hear from him all day yesterday, I texted him at night just saying good night, he responded. And today I haven't heard from him all day again. Oh, not to mention, I saw a toothbrush of a girl in his bathroom twice, then every time I went back, he would hide it. I haven't meantioned anything because I don't want to sound like I'm a psycho, or that I want to label anything. But It really bothers me, I feel like Ive been used. Should I mention anything to him? Should I tell him how I feel again? Should I ask if he's seeing someone else? For my own sexual protection, even though the tooth brush is always a big hint. I want to let him know that I won't be his side girl, and hang out with him only when it's convenient. Every time we see each other, it's wonderful, then he disappears. Am I over reacting? I'm so confused
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