millor86 Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Hi, I've recently come out of a relationship and haven't been on a date in over two years. I went out to a bar recently with my guy friends and found it hard getting the guts to go and chat to girls. I'm not looking for one night stands or anything like that, just some conversation openers that I can use to get chatting to women in public places. Can anyone offer any friendly ways I can get chatting to women in bars or clubs, or at the park or whereever. Thanks
grkBoy Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Hi, I've recently come out of a relationship and haven't been on a date in over two years. I went out to a bar recently with my guy friends and found it hard getting the guts to go and chat to girls. I'm not looking for one night stands or anything like that, just some conversation openers that I can use to get chatting to women in public places. Can anyone offer any friendly ways I can get chatting to women in bars or clubs, or at the park or whereever. Thanks I would say to not get discouraged easily. Be aware of your surroundings and be ready to make eye contact with women. You see one looking at you, you like her, smile...if she smiles back, walk over and say hi. Sometimes the meeting can happen anywhere. I'll get into elevators with pretty girls and just end up making a comment and it turns to conversation. Often times I'll simply compliment a total stranger on her outfit. I rarely ever get a "creeped out" reaction and it makes for an opener. Try to get sociable with friends and coworkers. Meet and get to know their friends. That helps. Do things...hobbies, interests, activities...but make sure they involve other people. I tossed out there taking a "fun class" like cooking or something because you'll end up meeting people. In the right areas, single women will go to cooking classes, and will be turned on by a man who can cook.
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