Mr. Savage Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Hey all, I've been posting about a recent breakup on here in the last week and I know a few have been following. Heres the post if you care http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t284937/ Anyway I work with this girl and see her everyday now. I can see on her face that she knows what she did is wrong and very hurtful but she is so stubborn and selfish she just will not say anything to me about it. I just sit back and am amused at the whole situation now. How could I have dated someone like this!? I don't care if she apologizes or not. I just find it funny that you can tell she knows what she did is horrible but REFUSES to let me be the victim. I can't wait to go out this weekend and have some fun as a new man! Laters!
Mnesic Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Hey all, I've been posting about a recent breakup on here in the last week and I know a few have been following. Heres the post if you care http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t284937/ Anyway I work with this girl and see her everyday now. I can see on her face that she knows what she did is wrong and very hurtful but she is so stubborn and selfish she just will not say anything to me about it. I just sit back and am amused at the whole situation now. How could I have dated someone like this!? I don't care if she apologizes or not. I just find it funny that you can tell she knows what she did is horrible but REFUSES to let me be the victim. I can't wait to go out this weekend and have some fun as a new man! Laters! Some girls are such snakes, kinda worries me if there are any good ones left.. Your situation was like mine but I found out way more than I needed to know but I don't regret it. You should be happy it was 2 months aha
Author Mr. Savage Posted June 30, 2011 Author Posted June 30, 2011 I wonder this too but I have learned so much from this experience that I will be much more in tune at evaluating a potential mate in the future. One thing I am going to look for is just how they treat people in general. This can tell you a world of someones personality. My ex was never polite in social settings wether odering food or paying for gas she would just treat the waiter/clerk like he/she was a stump. Thats something I should of picked up on but had the blinders on. Little things like that is what I will look for in the future.
Chi townD Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 IS she acting like she thinks you don't know what's going on? Is she avoiding you at all costs? If so, that's pretty laughable.
Author Mr. Savage Posted June 30, 2011 Author Posted June 30, 2011 Oh no, she knows I know. But I think it's the first time in her life she has had a guy who can just walk right over her drama with a smile on his face and it is pissing her off. Her ex-husband still pines to get her back. Her best guy friend follows her around like a puppy dog just hoping she will be with him someday (never happening). And I really think she thought I would fall in line like the rest but I have completely shut her out of my life and she doesn't know how to respond. Her whole thing is control. Wether it be friends or boyfriends she HAS to be in control. This girl is a specimen of Alpha-female we are talking about here. But she is so slick and cunning she can control people through this veil of acting innocent to everything around her. Thats what got me. Example the day after I found out and was completely ignoring her she sees me checking out a very attractive co-worker. So what does she do, she goes over to the attractive co-worker and starts buddy buddying up to her immediately as to say (you are not taking my friends). Can you believe this chick! Its like a movie!
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