blissie Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Hi everyone, Some background: I was seeing a man whom I met online. Everything was going great until he dumped me out of nowhere. We were fairly serious for about six months and I was really starting to fall for him. He gave me no reason and called me to end things. At the end of the day all I was worth to him was a five minute phone call. That stung. Generally if things end with someone I do the no contact thing. I have been NC with him for about three weeks now. I broke that last night. I still have a lot of his stuff here and I sure as hell don't want it, so I sent an email: "X, I'm not sending you this to bitch and moan and call you horrible names. I'm not that kind of person. I wasn't sure whether to contact you or not but I still have your things and if you send me on an address I'll make sure they find their way to you." He still hasn't replied to me. This makes me incredibly pissed off. Personally, I don't care if he ever gets his stuff back but in the sake of being civil even just a "no" or whatever would have been appreciated. Ugh I don't know. I am officially reinstating NC as of now. I'm sorry, I'm not even sure what the point was to this post. I just needed to get it off my chest
Geya Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Some people are idiots! Don't let his acts get to you, you didn't do anything wrong and you were civil, he wasn't & that has nothing to do with you o don't let his immature act get on your nerves.
stray Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 You can find out his address online - www.pipl.com Just send him his stuff, don't wait for a response. Get his stuff out, cut the cord, and it's over.
2sure Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Clearly whatever left with you is of no concern to him - otherwise he would have replied to your request to send him his things. Donate them or toss them. You did the Civil thing already, there is no further obligation on your part. You cant make him want his things back.
Author blissie Posted June 30, 2011 Author Posted June 30, 2011 Thanks guys, all your input is appreciated and you're all right in what you say. I tried to handle this in a mature way. Clearly he doesn't care about his things. Time to just dump them and move on. Well at least this has made me remember why no contact is such a good idea. He's managed to upset me without saying a word. Ugh!
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