Geya Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Is it crazy to think that? Can yo go on through your whole life and not love anyone after 19? Maybe it's possible
geegirl Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Yes, crazy it is. You're 19. You haven't even tasted life yet! Your ride has only just begun my dear.
WTRanger Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Vote #2 for crazy. But with your current attitude and mindset, yeah, it's possible to become the crazy cat lady.
geegirl Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 I was going to add in my earlier post that if you feel this way, you migh as well go all the way and get 10 cats, start learning how to knit and find a really comfy chair that rocks back and forth. After all, life has ended at 19. Live my dear! You have so much ahead of you. I suggest you print this post, tuck it away somewhere far and years down read it again and give yourself a good chuckle.
Mnesic Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Is it crazy to think that? Can yo go on through your whole life and not love anyone after 19? Maybe it's possible Hey man that's how I felt at the beginning of my break up and I'm younger than you, I'm 18. I learned that you shouldn't put your life on hold or wait for what ifs for someone, I did that and even though my break up has only been a little more than a week my ex is now sleeping with a douche bag that took advantage of her vulnerability. NC does wonders and its the best you got if you want to heal quickly Good luck
Author Geya Posted June 30, 2011 Author Posted June 30, 2011 Geegirl and WTranger LOL, your posts made me laugh, thanks I guess I just needed the reassurance, I'm trying to let myself see that, but for some reason at some point during the relationship the belief that he was the only person for me was made, and now I'm trying to get rid of it, thanks for the confirmations! Mnesic, ouch, how are you doing now? Glad to hear NC is doing great for you and thank you for your words
geegirl Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Geegirl and WTranger LOL, your posts made me laugh, thanks I guess I just needed the reassurance, I'm trying to let myself see that, but for some reason at some point during the relationship the belief that he was the only person for me was made, and now I'm trying to get rid of it, thanks for the confirmations! Mnesic, ouch, how are you doing now? Glad to hear NC is doing great for you and thank you for your words Everyone feels that way when they break up. It's a loss and you feel like it's the end. It feels like you will never find that connection or love again with anyone else. Completely normal. But it's not realistic! There will be many more people in the future that will come into your life and make your heart flutter. I promise!
Author Geya Posted June 30, 2011 Author Posted June 30, 2011 Everyone feels that way when they break up. It's a loss and you feel like it's the end. It feels like you will never find that connection or love again with anyone else. Completely normal. But it's not realistic! There will be many more people in the future that will come into your life and make your heart flutter. I promise! You don't know how much I needed to hear that, thank you!
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