AltoidsCan Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Hey guys, I've been chatting with this girl and I was wondering if you guys can help me out. She said: My ideal guy would be someone who's manly and takes care of me, I don't want someone who obeys everything I say" [/Quote] I like new you because you knew what you wanted and not because I want it and that's why u wanted it. [/Quote] Can someone please what she's talking about? She started off this conversation with. "I dont know.. sometimes I feel like you're turning back"
snug.bunny Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 I think it means ------------> she digs men who are self-assured, self-reliant, and go after what they want.
thehead Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 She wants you to be your own person, to not be her doormat, and she's likely going to test you on that (subconsciously).
thatone Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 it doesn't mean anything. that's the honest truth. you'll find that she will say she wants the opposite of what she really wants, because she doesn't have a clue what she wants, or what she wants doesn't exist. so just tune it all out, respond with bullsh*t that you know works.
Author AltoidsCan Posted June 30, 2011 Author Posted June 30, 2011 She wants you to be your own person, to not be her doormat, and she's likely going to test you on that (subconsciously). Can you please elaborate on that? I make my own decision but I always tell her that I want to be the best man for her. <- This is why she thinks I am not being me.
rafallus Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 You cannot be at her beck and call, and never give up your life (eg. pastimes) just for her. Ie. if you are busy with something important, and she asks you for a petty ****, you say no and keep doing important stuff, instead of throwing everything aside just to please her.
thatone Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Can you please elaborate on that? I make my own decision but I always tell her that I want to be the best man for her. <- This is why she thinks I am not being me. rewrite what she wrote in her own words. she wants someone who "takes care of her" then she wants someone who takes care of himself first, then if you don't magically pick which one she prefers on any given day she "feels like you're turning back". it's all fantasy, man, there's nothing to read into it. she wants what does not exist, as do a huge number of other women. unless you can magically read her mind you won't figure it out, because she doesn't know what the hell she wants either, it changes on at least a daily basis. so ignore it. be who you've decided to be regardless of what she says on any given day.
grkBoy Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Hey guys, I've been chatting with this girl and I was wondering if you guys can help me out. She said: Can someone please what she's talking about? She started off this conversation with. "I dont know.. sometimes I feel like you're turning back" She wants an independent thinker. Someone who has a backbone and doesn't just say "yes dear" and/or agrees with everything she says in the hopes he'll get her. She doesn't want a doormat. You're doing fine. Just be you and don't be afraid to disagree with her if you really disagree with her. I do wonder how many women though say they want the "free thinker", but then when they get married she wants him to become "yes dear" so she can run the show.
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