guitar16 Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 Okay, so my ex and I dated for a month. It was nothing serious (obviously) but yet I still had a good amount of feelings for her. We broke up because she "didn't feel it anymore". I have not spoken to her since the day we broke up, a little over a month ago. I have 2 things...for some reason inside of me, I always want to know what ex's think of our relationship/what they'll remember about me. IDK what it is, I just am always curious about that. I have been considering breaking NC and messaging her on FB or texting her and asking her this casually. However, within the last few days she got a new boyfriend. This is how I found out I was almost completely over it all because it really didn't bother me that much. Would it be appropriate to ask her these questions while she's dating someone? Also, I am afraid it might drum up some old bitterness about the break up and/or feelings for her. On the other hand, it could give me some closure and could make me feel like our relationship wasn't meaningless to her. Should I break NC for this, or should I just avoid these things in all and continue NC?
wilsonx Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 i think these are questions you should ask yourself and not her... you only dated for a month. I do not mean to sound rude but I have a feeling that you may be insecure with yourself and women see that
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