feebs Posted April 21, 2004 Posted April 21, 2004 Ok I need you guys out there to tell me what is wrong with this guy: I had a pretty bad breakup a year ago (lesbian rs), am turning straight, met this new guy, thought wow he COULD be the one. We talked about marriage and stuff on our 3rd date (we are in our mid-20s). Suddenly, I felt that HEY, this is not right.. way too fast! I hardly know this guy. I better take things slower, start from friends etc. I had been really frank about my past, why I have reservations and why I want to take things slowly. Then he's always telling me how he wants to marry me, that I am the happiest thing in his life, and he will wait for me forever just to be with me in the future blabla. Alright, then I made it clear to him that I don't wish to keep hearing him go on telling me how much he loves me (I really doubted it could be that fast). He said he understood and will take it slow. Boom - 3 days after that, he has chatted up another girl online and asked her out for a date on the 3rd day of chatting. I mean... besides being a guy that talked Bullcrap to me, is there other reason why the sudden "I got well and moved on!" actions?
viciouscancer Posted April 22, 2004 Posted April 22, 2004 well, u dont know if his feeling are ginuwine or not. but sometimes they really are. i feel the same way about a girl i know too. (but not the marrying **** though, that is definitly too quick). but if i feel things are not working by me being completely honest. than u have no choice but to move on. maybe he thought u didnt want to be with him. that same situation happen to me. ur the one he REALLY wants. he is just doing this to get his mind off u rejecting him. he moved real fast to get the other girl, cause after feeling like he was rejection his mind is all f-cked up... if u really liked him stop what ur doing. what he really has on u is love at first sight. and this definitly happens. look at it this way, u must definitly have the physical attraction that he would want to keep. alot of guys would just ''f-ck em' and chuck em.' and that is what he would do if he was with the other girl and u came back to him.. take advantage of this, he thinks ur special.. thanx 4 listening, Viciouscancer
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