KennyNicholas Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 Hello, I would really appreciate if someone could help me out a little, Little about myself I'm 19 and english I can be a little shy at times but of course like most guys when it comes to women I guess thats when i'm shy the most.. anyway A new girl arrived where I work just a little over a week ago, shes 20 and from slovakia, to the eye she seems nice a little shy also at times but I cant make out if shes into me or im just getting to ahead of myself. When i'm working I have to be professional but also a little social to provide a decent atmosphere in the kitchen, it seems to me with anybody besides myself the girl in question tends to be really quite open to shows no signs of being shy,. but in my presence when I ask her for example her order shell smile at me and become all shy and tense. I have only had a few brief conversations with her in the past week, on the friday we all went out and she sat next to me in the bar i bought her a drink and we all exchanged storys, and just yesterday i offered her my own breakfast because there was only one left to choose from and she didnt like what was to offer on that plate but the problem in my mind if just confronting her about all of the above, and thinking about taking her places to get to know her? maybe a week is a little to soon? Advice would be great thanks in advance!
Author KennyNicholas Posted July 18, 2011 Author Posted July 18, 2011 (edited) Well.. I have now been out with her a few times to places shopping and we seem to be getting along really well, her other slovakian mate would love to see me and her get together but she doesnt want to ask her directly if she likes me and im not scared to im just curious as to wether she really is into me or not. If I might add just for fun I have carried her home from town to her place in the presence of others once or twice not because she is drunk but just for a bit of a laugh and she does seem to enjoy it a little bit.. Do you think I should just be direct the next time we meet up and ask her if we should give it a shot or just buying my time and let things fall into place themselves? Appreciate some response! Thank You! Edited July 18, 2011 by KennyNicholas
k100danny Posted July 18, 2011 Posted July 18, 2011 In my oppinion it is early days and you seem to be having fun together. I wouldnt dive into it but i would definitely let her know youre interested but be subtle. It sounds like you are getting on great and if you are both into each other you will get together. I know when you really like someone it is hard to play it cool but jumping into it really fast can also ruin it and make it short lived. Keep seeing each other, give her subtle hints you like her and get to know her a bit more. if you re both feeling it im sure it will happen so dont worry about it too much.
Author KennyNicholas Posted July 18, 2011 Author Posted July 18, 2011 Cheers for that! I know exactly what you mean I would just like this to work this time though , shes a lovely "shy" girl and I would deffinately like to get to know her alot more thanks again! EDIT: Sorry but what do you mean by subtle? could you elaborate a little on that? thanks
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