suziesuzie Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 In my late 20s/he in his mid-30s. I've been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks. We've gone on about 7 dates, have spent the night together several one but have not had sex. He pursued me. Has never contacted me everyday, which is okay with me. When we are together things are great. I saw him last Wednesday and he contacted me on Saturday and Monday but has not asked me out again! I'm so confused at this point. He referenced future interactions like, "you will have to show me" or "next time you stay over" but still hasnt set a date! I asked him out the last time and feel like it's his turn now. What gives? Should I be concerned?
Author suziesuzie Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 Anyone? Super bummed and frustrated!
2sunny Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 the beginning of dating - he should be showing his best effort. seems you don't think this is his best effort. if it's not - don't waste your time/energy. he's not likely to get better about it - but worse. don't spend the night again. it sends mixed signals to men... whether you have sex with him or not - it's never a good idea.
Author suziesuzie Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 Not sure tha is matters but I probably should have added that he has not pushed sex AT ALL -- he has not tried or asked and has told me he prefers for more of an emotional connection before he sleeps with someone.
Author suziesuzie Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 Not sure tha is matters but I probably should have added that he has not pushed sex AT ALL -- he has not tried or asked and has told me he prefers for more of an emotional connection before he sleeps with someone.
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