one goal Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 So today I manned up and sat next to her in class. I decided to dress up for my presentation. She smilled when she sat down and kinda giggled about me dressing up today for the presentation. We talked some during class. After class I walked out to her car with her. I started to get nervous though and kinda freezing up and I know she could tell. I mentioned how we texted a lot and wanting to talk to her more. She seemed kinda shy too, and then she asked about my Camaro and mentioned how she drove a "old persons" car. I know I should have asked her if she wanted to drive my car, but didn't think of it and was too nervous. She also mentioned from seeing my facebook post that Im obsessed with katharine McPhee lol. She watches Idol and mentioned her a little. I just sent her a text asking if she wants to drive my car after next class. Its mixed signals because she smiled a lot and seemed shy when talking to me after class also.
Damien Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 Well, she does seem kinda interested in you, but why did you offer to let her use your car? Just offer to take her on a drive instead? As in, you do the driving and she can be in the seat next to you.
Author one goal Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 Well, she does seem kinda interested in you, but why did you offer to let her use your car? Just offer to take her on a drive instead? As in, you do the driving and she can be in the seat next to you. Like I said I was nervous, and never thought of it. I just sent her a text. We will see if she replies back.
oaks Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 So today I manned up and sat next to her in class. Yay! Its mixed signals because she smiled a lot and seemed shy when talking to me after class also. You would think it was mixed signals if she told you she never wanted to talk to you again but in this case it sounds like she isn't running for the hills yet. You should still remember that she has already told you that she doesn't want a relationship, so my interpretation is that you might be able to make a friend here if that's what you want (and what I mean by that is that you'll screw it up if your motivation is to have a relationship since that isn't what she wants).
Damien Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 Like I said I was nervous, and never thought of it. I just sent her a text. We will see if she replies back. Ah right, fair enough. Good luck bud
Author one goal Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 She said she doesn't want to drive it because she's worried she'd wreck it because it's a fast car. I decided to be honest with her, and told her I'm shy, but it's because she's a nice young lady.
Author one goal Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 So How do I go about these mixed signals then? Towards the end of the semester would it be possible to ask her out and see how it goes this time around?
oaks Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 So How do I go about these mixed signals then? They aren't very mixed. Just try to be friends with her. Oh, and stop telling her that you're shy. She's got the message by now.
Mrlonelyone Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 You don't. If you figure out how write a book about it and you will become a millionaire and get the Nobel Peace Prize. It's all in how women are raised in western culture. Good girls are supposed to be sweet, demure, quiet, and not supposed to like sex. Only bad slutty women are direct and to the point about what they want. Here is what you do. If she's wanting to hang out with you do so. If not then keep moving on. Do not focus so much on this girl that you miss other receptive women in the area. Do paint your Camaro to look like the General Lee... do not drive through a black neighborhood in it if you like living.
Author one goal Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 You don't. If you figure out how write a book about it and you will become a millionaire and get the Nobel Peace Prize. It's all in how women are raised in western culture. Good girls are supposed to be sweet, demure, quiet, and not supposed to like sex. Only bad slutty women are direct and to the point about what they want. Here is what you do. If she's wanting to hang out with you do so. If not then keep moving on. Do not focus so much on this girl that you miss other receptive women in the area. Do paint your Camaro to look like the General Lee... do not drive through a black neighborhood in it if you like living. LOL. Afterall MO was the 12th Confederate state. She knows I'm shy around her, and she could tell like today when we were walking out to our cars. I could tell she was shy too talking to me because she knows I like her. She's distracting because she's so stunning. I'm being honest though she is very very attractive.
Author one goal Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 so school gets out at the end of july, and she goes back to her univeristy mid august like most students. Any advice what to do until then? Also how do I ask her out again towards the end? How should I word it?
Cracker Jack Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 What makes you think asking her out again is a wise decision?
oaks Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 so school gets out at the end of july, and she goes back to her univeristy mid august like most students. Any advice what to do until then? Be friends. (You have no idea how to follow that instruction, do you?) Also how do I ask her out again towards the end? How should I word it? Can't you just accept her friendship? She doesn't want a relationship with you, so I'm not going to "help" you answer that.
Author one goal Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 Be friends. (You have no idea how to follow that instruction, do you?) Can't you just accept her friendship? She doesn't want a relationship with you, so I'm not going to "help" you answer that. BUt if I don't see her again, I might as well go for broke? Also "friendship" how does wanting to go out and do something with her considered "dating"?
Cracker Jack Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 Also "friendship" how does wanting to go out and do something with her considered "dating"? Dude, you're doing it because you like her and hope to grow closer to her. You're not simply going out as friends only. You want to take her out because you're attracted to her. She might see it as a friendly outing, but clearly you'd want it to be more. No reason to be dishonest.
Author one goal Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 Dude, you're doing it because you like her and hope to grow closer to her. You're not simply going out as friends only. You want to take her out because you're attracted to her. She might see it as a friendly outing, but clearly you'd want it to be more. No reason to be dishonest. SO you mean I should be honest with her, and tell her my feelings when I do decide to ask her out again later next month? I do like her. She's very very attractive, but she's really nice, soft spoken, even a little shy as well.
LexiB Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 She's distracting because she's so stunning. I'm being honest though she is very very attractive. Katherine McPhee being a "10" where does this girl rate? And the teacher? Genuinely just curious.
Author one goal Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 Katherine McPhee being a "10" where does this girl rate? And the teacher? Genuinely just curious. Honestly, this young lady is prettier, and actually age appropriate unlike the teacher. I try not to check her out though because I honestly respect her, and do like her.
Author one goal Posted June 30, 2011 Author Posted June 30, 2011 We don't have class until a week from now because of the 4th. I'm going to kinda hang low and not text her as much until then. I don't want to come off as persistant.
AlexDP Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 She also mentioned from seeing my facebook post that Im obsessed with katharine McPhee lol. She watches Idol and mentioned her a little. I don't think there is a girl out there who would ever date a guy obsessed with Katharine McPhee.
Author one goal Posted June 30, 2011 Author Posted June 30, 2011 I plan on texting her like on Tue see how she's doing. I know she has to work this weekend so I wont text her then. I don't want to come off as pushy, but I want her to know that I'm interested in her.
RovingReporter Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 Just be yourself. Bad advice. OP is an admitted stalker and generally creepy person. Anyone advising him to pursue thus girl should feel pretty bad about inflicting this turd on an innocent female.
RedRussian8080 Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 "innocent female" - and you know that how? She never did anything bad in her life? She is pure innocents in the flesh!
RovingReporter Posted July 1, 2011 Posted July 1, 2011 "innocent female" - and you know that how? She never did anything bad in her life? She is pure innocents in the flesh! Innocent in the sense shes done nothing to deserve being set in the sights of this psychopath. I'll break it down Elmo style next time for you.
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